crafty-grrr that body of yours tell it your not ready for your hormones to pack it in just yet.
And i know what you mean about not being able to afford a FS we are debt free except the last few thousand left over from our IVF and i have some money in the bank but i can't bring myself to use it i would feel guilty taking that money away from my boys because i have already dipped considerably into my savings for all the medication and travel ect.i wont touch anymore but i am hopeing that my tax return will bump it back up but maybe you could look into a really good naturopath i was amazed at what they can tell about your body and hormones just from looking in your eyes and at your fingernails and tongue they are not cheap but no where near the cost of a FS and like i said my one got a 48 year old pregnant with her own eggs and i looked in her photo book of babies and there was a heap of ladies in there in their mid 40's so you are out of the running just yet and i know time is not on your side but just give it a little bit longer.
We have decided not to go back to our naturopath as she said our fertility is fine it is lifestyle that is effecting our eggs and sperm and stress and taking all the detox crap and avoiding all the food she put on our diet was just adding to our stress so we take all the tablets and good things to help fertility but we need to relax more and exercise and hope it happens.
Millyd-I am on day 10dpo today i am due for AF wed but as i O'd two days later i should be due on fri i don't want to test this month i don't know why just don't have it in me i hope you get a BFP you will be number 3 of the BFP's good luck.
Mildez-I am very proud of your Hubby for giving it everything cause as we know we can't get pregnant without them.
Mummyof4-If you need to stay a bit longer that is fine by me when and if i get pregnant i want to stay in this thread until i get my 12 week CVS results because i don't think i could handle going into the pregnancy thread with all the other pregnant ladies knowing that i have a 1 in 4 chance that i wont be making it past 12 weeks how can i talk positively to other mums to be when all i will be thinking about is doe's this baby have SLO and freaking out waiting for the results but if i did stay here i wouldn't talk about my pregnancy as in how many weeks i am and ultrasounds ect so i didnt upset anyone.
Murrycod-Hope you got my PM and i hope you are feeling a bit better today we can do this hang in there.
AFM-well 2 days until AF is suppose to be here by my period dates but by DPO dates i still have 4 days to go and i am 99% sure there is no baby this month so no Bday surprise for me and no conception on Abbi's Bday which would have made me feel like she is still with me but on the plus side for all us ladies who miss out on a 2010 baby any baby born after jan 1st 2011 that is when the paid maternity allowance kicks in so we will be able to take time off work and get so many weeks half pay i remember when the government passed the ledgislation i said to DH that would be right we miss out by 18 months cause Abbi was due in August 09 and now i am here and if we get pregnant now we qualify for it i don't know if i should feel sad or happy about that.
Hi ferrals,
I o'd 2 days later than usual too, so period would have been due tomorrow, but according to O is due thursday. Anway I tested this moning at 11dpo....BFN!!! Bllody hell. Iwas feeling so confident about my cm too. Anyway, hopefully all is not lost although I feel pretty down right now...
Dont give up hope though ferals. When I was pregnant with my daughter I was adamant that I was not, I wasnt even testing. I finally tested at cd35!!! with BFP...so sometimes we think we know our bodies, other times..not so much.
I hope it hapens for you though sweet xxxx
Sory no other persies, I am still getting used to this whole bb thing. I dont know how you ladies remember everthing, do you take notes???..
YOu are all amazing and so supportive
Love to all
xxx
Ferrals, thank you so much for the PM hiney, don't know what i'd do without you guys picking me up when I trip over my left foot all the time!XX
I am going to ring my FS thismorning to see what he thinks, and ask him if there are any tests I can do to see if I have an implantation problem or something, anything.
Crafty, I am so sorry you hav AF so darn earl, bebe, try hang in theere with me, I know it's hard. Sometimes I too feel like I want to give up, actually, not like I wan't to, but have to, before It consumes me to the piont where another 5 years fly by and still not acheived a thing, other than get older and crankier!XX
Chody, LMAO!!!! Yes, I do that too hun, I can assure you one thing, if I ever get a bfp ever, I won't be cleaning the bathroom or floors with any chemicals, will be bicarb soda lemon juice and a hint of vinegar for me!!! My house will smell like fish and chips!! But better that getting a domestos headache!! On a seriouse note, I miscarried the day after I scrubbed both of the showers in the house with domestos and it stunk, there is always something hinting in the back of my mind 'what if'..........
MillyD, I pray to god that you are pregnant, honey, I would not wish on anyone, that they have to stay in this part of the forums for as long as a few of us have had too. Not that the girls here arent fantastic, because they are my freash air at the moment, but it is lovely to see friends get to move on the way it is supposed to be XX
Mildez, going for a girl???!!! Girly sperm can live for up to 4-5 days if the conditions allow them!!! I hope that you did catch that egg XX
Bons, I honestly had my hopes up that some miracle happened and one of my folllies got fertilised too
I love what your DH says about easter egg!! That is so great!! Hope he gwetts his wish XXX
Alice, very lovely advice you gave mummy0f4 XXXXX How are you going??
Kit, and Thopes, I am half way through the fourth book, I know...I am love struck by a vampire!
Thopes darling, aaagh why do our bad days outnumber the good ones lately?? It has to be out turn soon, it has too XXXX Huggs to you darling XX
Kit, dunno what I am going to do when I finish this last book, will have to start them all over again, it has been a great getaway from this world, to another I wish I was in!!
My god can't beleive it took 4 books for Edward to do her!! Bella I mean..... I would have jumped him the first chapter!!!! LMAO!!! Sigh..................
MissK sweetheart so sorry to read of your bad day at the path clinic, hun, you are a strong girl, I do hope you feel a little better today XX
TTCALC, the first day of full flow AF is classed as Day 1 of your new cycle, so count back 14 days from then and that will be a pretty good indicator of when you O. I am not good at charting temps and things, but I do write a little note in my diary how I feel and what I feel. It is funny to go back and realise 'yes' thats right, thats when I Oed!! Try that mabey, and you may have an Idea for next month.
I am againds OPK's, a lot of girls here use them, my my FS told me to throw mine in the bin a year ago now! (look where that has got me though!!)
The CBFM that Crafty and Ferrals have sounds great though, mabey invest in one of those if you think your body is all over the shop!XX
Girls, sorry to forget a few,
Mummyof4 and my Darling Snugglybuggs, wish I was with you girls, I hope you are feeling wonderfull and healthy. Love to you XXX
And [lease stick around for the odd update, I love reading about how everyone is getting along XX
Dory, I so miss chatting to you all the time. Snuggly, see, no laughs since you went............miss you already soooo much XX
Take it eesy, I'm going to go ring my FS at Repromed XXXXX
Let you know how it goes XXXXX
hey girls - im back and in better spirits than yesterday! sorry about my big sook yesterday but today is a new day, woke up to find AF had arrived over night and my temp took a dive bomb. But I need to remember this is not the end of the world! I now have a 30 day cycle so thats good news! Never had AF this early in my life so my chinese herbs are working! I started my new round of herbs today (for day 1-4 of cycle) and im feeling ok! I think I just needed my day yesterday to mope around and stay in my pajamas and catch up on all my Gossip Girl, Greys Anatomy, Vampire Diaries and finished it all off the Notting Hill, nothing like a but of Julia Roberts and Hugh Grant! Ah it was grand!!!
Alice - thank you so much for your beautiful words yesterday, cant express to you how much you helped me! your an angel
crafty - have you seen a chinese doc b4?? Maybe a cheaper alternitive? And the herbs really do help elevate your mood and have really helped my cycle?? thank you for your lovely post to me too - your so gorgeous xx And I too wanted to kill my DH yesterday! Every word he spoke yesterday bugged me!! hhehe! But today i wuv him again! poor love!!!
mummyof4 - yeah of course stay around here, i will be the same too when its my turn. Im thinking of you today and praying your BT results are nice and high xx
murraycod - good to hear you are busy reading about our dreamy Edward! How delish is he huh!?! Let us know how the call with you FS goes ? xx
kit - how you hanging in there darlin? are you going to test or just wait it out? Its ok if its not a christmas baby... maybe it will be a new years baby!!!! Thats what im praying for now anyway!!!
ferrals - any news over there?? are you testing or waiting?
millyd - hoping a bfp is coming to you soon!! sounding good!
chody - yeah its scary isnt it? wondering when we do finally get our bfp, how will we handle it, i know im gunna be a stresser but i have such a better understanding of how precious pregnancy, i will treasure everyday xx
missK - when do you get your results back of the bloodwork?? x
anyways - i better go and adjust my ticker to my new 30day cycle!!!
xx
On a seriouse note, I miscarried the day after I scrubbed both of the showers in the house with domestos and it stunk, there is always something hinting in the back of my mind 'what if'..........
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