crafty-grrr that body of yours tell it your not ready for your hormones to pack it in just yet.
And i know what you mean about not being able to afford a FS we are debt free except the last few thousand left over from our IVF and i have some money in the bank but i can't bring myself to use it i would feel guilty taking that money away from my boys because i have already dipped considerably into my savings for all the medication and travel ect.i wont touch anymore but i am hopeing that my tax return will bump it back up but maybe you could look into a really good naturopath i was amazed at what they can tell about your body and hormones just from looking in your eyes and at your fingernails and tongue they are not cheap but no where near the cost of a FS and like i said my one got a 48 year old pregnant with her own eggs and i looked in her photo book of babies and there was a heap of ladies in there in their mid 40's so you are out of the running just yet and i know time is not on your side but just give it a little bit longer.
We have decided not to go back to our naturopath as she said our fertility is fine it is lifestyle that is effecting our eggs and sperm and stress and taking all the detox crap and avoiding all the food she put on our diet was just adding to our stress so we take all the tablets and good things to help fertility but we need to relax more and exercise and hope it happens.

Millyd-I am on day 10dpo today i am due for AF wed but as i O'd two days later i should be due on fri i don't want to test this month i don't know why just don't have it in me i hope you get a BFP you will be number 3 of the BFP's good luck.

Mildez-I am very proud of your Hubby for giving it everything cause as we know we can't get pregnant without them.

Mummyof4-If you need to stay a bit longer that is fine by me when and if i get pregnant i want to stay in this thread until i get my 12 week CVS results because i don't think i could handle going into the pregnancy thread with all the other pregnant ladies knowing that i have a 1 in 4 chance that i wont be making it past 12 weeks how can i talk positively to other mums to be when all i will be thinking about is doe's this baby have SLO and freaking out waiting for the results but if i did stay here i wouldn't talk about my pregnancy as in how many weeks i am and ultrasounds ect so i didnt upset anyone.

Murrycod-Hope you got my PM and i hope you are feeling a bit better today we can do this hang in there.

AFM-well 2 days until AF is suppose to be here by my period dates but by DPO dates i still have 4 days to go and i am 99% sure there is no baby this month so no Bday surprise for me and no conception on Abbi's Bday which would have made me feel like she is still with me but on the plus side for all us ladies who miss out on a 2010 baby any baby born after jan 1st 2011 that is when the paid maternity allowance kicks in so we will be able to take time off work and get so many weeks half pay i remember when the government passed the ledgislation i said to DH that would be right we miss out by 18 months cause Abbi was due in August 09 and now i am here and if we get pregnant now we qualify for it i don't know if i should feel sad or happy about that.