eliselouise-Thank you for your kind words,Ithink it's pretty easy to get addicted to this site...sammy & hearts-sorry to hear af arrived,hope you can do something nice for yourself...starangelk&coco-sounds like there is still hope for you guys,it hard to tell when cycles are mixed up,frustrating I know...tanya-Thanks for the welcome,thoughts are with you,heard a lot of people find it helps to mark the day in some way.We had a small picnic around Matthew's grave,everybody is different though.