Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 2009

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Hi girls and thanks for all the replies to my post re how soon can I TTC after the D&C...

I am absolutley consumed with it It's totally insane!!! SO I have decided to give my OB a call to confirm that he told me I could try straight away... If he confirms I will not wait... I kinda think a bfp is unlikely unless my body is ready for it yet on the other hand I don't want to increase my chances of another mc... OMG I know all of you have gone through this agonising yourself... The fact that I am a 'true' liberian is NOT helping me at this time

Possums I am so sorry to hear of your diagnosis and I have my fingers crossed for you too And here I am with my trivial crisis of when I can ttc again! Thanks for putting it in perspective for me

plc1805 I loved your post and thanks for your reply to my ttc Q. What you said about your little girl is just lovely... I had said to DH a couple of days ago something similar... "There are so many options... like millions of sperm which could fertilise the egg... The baby you get in the end is JUST SO SPECIAL" And he said to look at the mc as gaining a baby not loosing one... It's a nice way to look at things anyway

Jen LOL I didn't think you actually ate the pencils, but I am picturing it now heheh Can't wait to check out your sky diving!

OK back to me.... WORK!!! 2 pg woman at the same time chatting at the counter about how they are due in 5 & 2 weeks and when one of them got there she felt the need to start giving me advise for "when it's my turn" This time tears were not the emotion I felt welling (as expected) it was my blood boiling!!!! OMG I just wanted to tell her to SHUT UP!!!!! OMG I have gone totally insane and completely crazy over TTC

Thanks for the rant... Hope your'e having a better day than me (no I don't have multiple personality disorder, even though it sounds like it)

ADDITION A COUPLE OF MINS LATER: Just got off the phone from the OB and he said to wait until after my 1st period GOD DAM IT!!!!!! Oh well at least I can stop going insane over it..... Now I just hope that the 'other' pregnant client who missed her app this morning doesn't show up this afternoon to give me more unwanted pregnancy advise