He was telling me today that he had a lady who had been trying for 16 yeras, 7 years of IVF and she just had a healthy baby boy... 3 months with him.

Well as long as it gives us all hope!!!

It probably sounds so so silly but I reckon it would be worse for me to tell him to pull out all the stops then not get pregnant because I would be starting to think where the hell do I go from there?

ANyway average time for any couple TTC is 6 months so Ill halve that and give myself 3 to get pregnant then tell him to pull out all the stops!!!!!!