coco--Aww, honey, you must've posted while I was leaving my massive post! People say the worst things when they've been drinking! Half the time they won't even remember what they said after, but unfortunately it's not as easily forgotten for us! Could he maybe feel somehow responsible, or somehow a failure for what happened, and he just doesn't know how to express his emotions over it? I don't know what to say, other than I'm sorry.... I hope things look a little brighter tomorrow (well, I guess it's today for you now) once he's sober. You're in my thoughts...