Jules hey there hun, gosh we're sorry to hear you're going through an awful time at the moment. We are all very supportive here and we all have good stories and opinions but ultimately it is up to you and what you prefer.

I had a natural m/c I was induced with the same tablets they give to full term women to expell the 'contents' as they put it and I was able to go again when I was ready.

I didnt take the d&c as I had a termination when i was only a teenager *bit of a screw up with my pill) and I was already feeling scared that the d&c from that was causing issues with TTC. They say that you cant try as soon with a d&c because of the lack of thickness of the lining of the uterus but that's something to discuss with your dr.

Are you ok? Given the circumstances? Do you mind my asking how far you were hon?
I hope you're ok, please come in here as often as you like xxxxx Sorry Im not the greatest of help but that was just my experience.