thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ August 08 #2

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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Member

    Jun 2008
    Brisbane
    185

    Hey y'all (do you like my attempt at american slang )

    Jenushka - thank you so much for your kind words you can always trust that we are hear for you, holding your hand.... I agree with your credits proposal - I would be straight to the 2nd trimster

    KL - DH will be pleased to know he has won the Star wars "war", yes I am very lucky to have him

    Tut and Larz - yay on your U/S

    Jen - I agree with (cant remember who wrote it now ) breathe darlin.... I agree no more testing until Sunday (if you can bear it) and maybe get yourself super busy so your not preoccupied with it all. As for the porn comment - DH certainly does not need any excuse - just goes right ahead and looks - lucky I'm not the jealous type

    Babyfever - sorry to hear you are feeling down - sounds like you have alot on your plate at the moment and have alot of decisions to make

    Fifi - what an interesting day you have had... so sounds like your preggers

    PLC - a baby girl - how beautiful

    Joey - the b6 helps with the luteal phase lengthening.... before my luteal phase was 10 days long - just on the verge of not being able to sustain an initial preg - <10 days never works apparently. The b6 has bought the ov back from day 19 to day 15 and my luteal phase is now 13 days which is heaps good.

    AFM - nothing to report really - DH is winding up to with a jar and then we'll go from there.

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    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    573

    Hey Jen Jen..... ooooooohhhhhhhhh Faaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnnnnn tastic ...... nite nite

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    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    Ruthie--



    plc--Thanks for sharing your great news with us!!! Can't wait for that



    pbstar--Thanks for the I can use all I can get! Sending lots of



    Babyfever--So? Did you POAS again? Waiting to hear the news! Hope things work out with you and DH--you won't find many men that would stick around like that! :goodluck2:

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    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    joey--Glad to hear my AF vibes worked! I was using the force again--I'm pretty good with force fields, too--so good that mollycat had to ask me to take it down! And you won't believe it, but as soon as I did, guess who came knocking? Hope your head cold goes away soon and you feel better! :goodluck2: with acupuncture next Tue--wow, that's going to be a busy day--plc has her u/s, and Krystie has acupuncture that day, as well!



    mollycat--Wow, looks like AF didn't stay long this cycle! Hopefully that's a sign of good things to come!



    larz--Sorry to hear about your u/s scare, that had to be so stressful! So happy they did the internal u/s and bubs was in the right place! Congratulations! That had to give you some peace of mind!



    Easha--Ooh! Tell DH I said :goodluck2: with his date with a jar!! Make sure he gives those little swimmers a pep talk first!



    Angel Nuff-- Hope you have a FABulous and Faaaaaaannnnn tastic day! Hopefully next time you log on you'll see my new avatar! Happy for you that you get to enjoy weekends off for a change! *kiss*

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    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    Sorry girls, DF has called for me to bring him some breakfast, then I have to get ready to work at the school for lunch, so I'll have to finish persies later. Will talk to you all soon!

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    Registered User

    Jun 2008
    New Jersey, USA
    192

    joey123- thank you momma!!!! We are very excited!! I'm 8 weeks even today!! yipppeeeeee!!! Wishing you the best!!

    Larz-OMG!! WWAAHHOOOOOOO!!!!!! I'm so happy for you!! Girl I was close to tears when the doc did the tummy u/s and said she didn't see nothing.. so when she did the rather uncomfortable vag. one and turned the screen to me!1 girl I SOBBED!!! In happy tears of course! I am amazed at life's beginnings God is amazing!! Life is!! I feel blessed! Congratulations momma!! Wishing you a Happy and healthy 9months!!! WAAHOO!!! Way to go! !I'm so happy for you!!!



    And to all since I'm craving all sorts of stuff here is a cyber "dessert" for all of you!! enjoy!!

  7. #7

    Dec 2007
    USA, Kansas
    824

    Joey- Sorry your not feeling well darling thats never fun. I hope you get feeling better, sorry to see that you got a BFN. I love heating blankets I have one you saying you got under one makes me want to get in mine its like 80 degrees in Kansas atm though maybe it wouldn't be wise.. lol.

    Easha- Have fun with DH don't get too wild now. lol.

    Well, Yesterday's test had to be the worst evap in my life, I have old pictures of my evaps and nothing was compaired to yesterday afteroons test I'm so raving ****ed, The test I took at 7 DPO yesterday with SMU (remember I took two tests yesterday) The FMU test I had bright yellow dull urine and test BFN, the SMU was darker almost aubrine reddish color & got the two lines (SMU test looked exactly like my 10 DPO test that I had last month when I was pregnant I KID YOU NOT) Well, with me pottying all night I took 2 tests this morning really clear URINE FMU BFN, A little darker urine SMU= Not as dark as the SMU urine yesterday that gave me two lines, BFN AGAIN!!.. My boobs fill fuller, but my cervix has been going from open to closed last two days with cramping off and on. I put my tests up in the closet and going to wait and see what happens I'm pretty sure I'm out this cycle.

    Yeah, My DH has a lot of love for me and always has even through everything I have put him through poor man. I tried getting him to leave me long ago but he always stuck by myside I'm glad to have him hes a great guy, I just don't have those feelings.
    Last edited by Babyfever2007; August 21st, 2008 at 03:23 AM.

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    Registered User

    Jun 2008
    New Jersey, USA
    192

    Babyfever... most women don't show a real BFP till after 12-15 DPO!! I knwo about stressing about POAS.. believe me I got a BFP on cycle day 63!!! how many DPO is that??.. holy smokes!!! Anyways.. give it time.. I know you will roll your eyes at this... but be patient.. if you have a baby inside it won't go anywhere.. it will stay right there developing inside of you!! Stressing might make you miscarry again an I don't want that.. believe me I have had 2!!!
    Give it a couple of days... momma.. I know how you feel.. I have been 3 years at this and it sucks! 1especially when we want a child so bad!! I know you might think.. its easy for you to say you are pregnant now.. It not easy.. cuz it took me 3 years of being a lab rat taking meds and having my heart shattered when I lost 2 babies I wanted really bad.
    Momma.. I will be praying for you.. I hope you find patience wherever you can and hold a few more days!!

    for your


    Ruthie

  9. #9

    Dec 2007
    USA, Kansas
    824

    Ruth- Well, The reason Im testing early this month is because I had a BFP at 7DPO last month thinking I would get one this cycle too... I lost my pregnancy at 6 weeks 1 day, And well, I jumped the gun and started TTC right away I couldn't wait anymore. Also my chart almost looks dooplicate to last too kinda a little off by a bit. Maybe it was just too early to TTC right away .
    Thanks for the support. I really do need to let go of my addiction anyways, I think now is the time to start (POAS addiction). And, Yeah that was a long cycle for you but I'm glad you got your BFP. Must had been a struggle of frustration for you. Happy 8 Weeks hunny. And, I'm not thinking that it was easy for you for any of us girls that have to go to a TTC site its not easy to get pregnant for us at all.. I would never think that about someone. All, my friends were pregnant when I was TTC and lost my baby and one more just found out, The others had there babies. I was proud of them.

    I put a photo of the Evap I got yesterday if anyone wants to look at a pee stick.
    Last edited by Babyfever2007; August 21st, 2008 at 04:23 AM.

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    Registered User

    Jun 2008
    New Jersey, USA
    192

    Babyfever-Oh hun..All i want to say is I know how you feel and I am here for you!! I'm a POAS addict myself.. and your fear about the 6 weeks!!!! OMG I have that too!! When I went to do the u/s I thought I was 6 weeks so when she did the tummy u/s and said she saw nothing my worst fears were lingering in my head... when I saw the screen when she did the vag. u/s.. Momma.. my tears??.. they were of relief,of gratefulness, of joy .. I don't know of many feelings. When she said I was 7 weeks that was 1 week away from miscarriage week for me!! I'm proud that you have held on.. I wish I could make it all better bu I know I can't.. I do understand how you feel and just know that I'm here for you!!!I am praying for you and I hope you get that BFP on time for you to see a doctor and have a chance to finally have your baby nice and healthy in 9 months! 1good luck to you and I am sure for you!!



    your friend always,
    Ruthie