Shan, I'm so very sorry that the test was a bfn . Like Sezjm said please don't disappear for too long, I know that I'll miss you hun. Enjoy your time away and be kind to yourself.
Rach sorry to hear af has decided to visit your place.I do hope she is kind to you.
Well I'm off to my appointment later today. I didn't get much sleep last night as I've been thinking about what my dr will say. Deep down I know where I'm headed but I really don't want to go down that path:frown: . Oh maybe I'm just jumping to conclusions.I will pop back in later to let you know how it goes.
Shan, I am so sorry you got a bfn - we all know what it is like when you see the 1 line when you want 2 more than anything else in the world. As hard as this ttc journey has been for you I am confident you will come out the other end with a beatiful bubba in your arms - you just have to hang in there.I understand you wanting to disappear for a while so take any time you need but know that we all here for you. Bigs hugs to you & DH & as the others say it aint fully over until the witch arrives. Enjoy your holidays, have some wine & psych yourself up for next time....
Rach75 - sorry you got a visit also. Good luck next cycle.
Mako - good luck at your appt today - I hope you hear some positive news & that things start to happen for you!
Love to everyone else!!
Oh CRAP Shan!!!!! I so hoped this was it for you! I know what it's like to always tell yourself you won't be disappointed but that is such a crock of crap and almost impossible to achieve!
I understand your need for time out-- it does all get to be too much at times. I found when I got bfn's and after my m/c's I (and DH) gravitated toward our childless and single friends for some GOOD TIMES (nice dinners, ****tails,late nights, spontaneous plans,etc) and that really helped me to not think about things for a while. In fact after my last m/c I gave away all my pregnancy mags and a couple of maternity dresses I'd been given and I felt quite cleansed when we came back to TTC again. It felt like more of a fresh start and less like "here we go again"!
I'm thinking of you and your DH and know you are probably again mulling over those options you were alluding to a few months ago. Just wanted to let you know that my good girlfriend and her hubby who tried for two plus years before trying any options are just about to have their first bub-- they fell on their very first cycle of IVF. They had completely unexplained infertility and this was the first option they took up.
Wish I was there to give you big hugs and if I wasn't in my current condition to partake in some Mai Tai's (the world's yummiest ****tail!!) with you!
Hopexoxoxoxoxo
Shan, im so sorry you didnt get that second line today sweety, but maybe, just maybe its a bit early. I had one of those dreams in December, and a few days later, it was a bfp. I will still be keeping it all crossed that af doesnt arrive, but for now take care of yourself and emjoy your time with your family. Sending you hugs and baby dust always,
Lisa
. Like Sezjm said please don't disappear for too long, I know that I'll miss you hun. Enjoy your time away and be kind to yourself.
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