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Thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ July 08 #4

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    WTH - I am so very sorry my thoughts are with you. I hope so very much that your ob is wrong.

    Tina - Big congrats!

    Joey - Good luck for testing tomorrow, hope that line gets darker!!

    Sorry for the lack of persies, I will be back soon to do them but I hope everyone is doing well.



    AFM - I'm going OK, 4DPO today and having heaps of cramps and a bit of back pain and feeling a bit like AF is just about to arrive, even though I'm not expecting her until the middle of next week. I'm pretty sure that it is probably just the progesterone pessaries that I am on during the TWW though. Oh how I wish the next 10 days would just disappear!
    Last edited by nicjay; July 15th, 2008 at 05:16 PM. Reason: Oops forgot Joey - sorry!!

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    pbstar : big dh's understanding is all that matters! lucky you have such a wonderful hubby to stand by you!

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    JOEY: BIG CONGRATS! & a load of

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    Where There s Hope

    There is nothing really I can say... not a lot comes to mind except for sadness... yes I can say I ve done the HCG walk.... hopefully that helps tiny bit...knowing that someone understands... but thats about all I can do..... One thing I will say.... I never gave up I still talked to them everyday, I still sat with my hands on my tummy talking to them, willing them on..... Dont give up hun.... pray and pray... a little miracle may just come your way.

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    Sandygirl - I agree wholheartedly that we should both be UTD by now! Actually, I think everyone in this whole thread should be I really really hate this first two weeks of the cycle. I feel like I can't do anything productive about making a baby. I wish I could ovulate the day after AF arrives! But I'm sure you and everyone else feels the same

    Smilanatu
    - I'm getting out the wrapping paper and ribbons for your birthday pressie!!

    Jen
    - Mmmmm brownie mix! That's the best kind of mix!
    Soooo, I biatch-slapped AF today. I was trying to have a polite conversation with her about why she shouldn't come back next month, and that cow started talking back! So I slapped her one. She cried for a bit, but I'm sure deep down she knows it's all for the best. We never really got along that well anyway...
    I sooooooooooo want to go to you g-ma's house! It sounds so cool! I've always wanted to go to a place that has hidden tunnels and secret passages!

    Angel Babies
    - I can't watch horror movies either! I watched "Signs" at the cinema and made a fool of myself. I clung so tightly to my friends denim jacket that when we left the cinema his jacket sleeve wouldn't uncrease. Oh, and during one of the quiet scary scenes I accidentally made that noise that you make when you are really scared.. Ummm, I don't know how to write it, but it's kind of like "mmmnnnghhhhh" The whole cinema laughed at me. It was sooooo embarassing!!!
    I actually watched it again recently on TV and during an ad break I went to see DH in the computer room and the stupid-head had placed a glass of water in the corridor to scare me! But then I guess you would only get that if you've seen the movie, which you probably haven't because it's scary hehehehe.

    Toccara
    - Yay for AF leaving! Now you can start planning your bd'ing shananigans! I totally agree with the banning of AF. Between the ban and the curse I'm sure everyone will be AF-free and UTD within the next month!!!

    Ruthie
    - Good to see you found us again! I hope that in a few more days you hit 6 weeks and get a stick that finally gives you 2 lines!

    Mollycat
    - Is your diploma something you can stop now and finish later? If it is then maybe you can take some time off from doing it just to see if that helps in the TTC department. I know it's really hard to make sacrifices like that though, especially when you don't know exactly when you will fall pregnant. Sometimes I feel silly for cutting down my hours at work because I could be saving more money if I was working more. But I figure that I want to give my body it's best chance of being the best it can be to get pregnant, and I don't think it was when I was stressed with work.
    Anyway, I rambled a bit, but I hope you find a perfect balance for yourself!
    Ok, so now we have cursed AF, banned AF, and sent her to Mollycat's SIL and Jen's DH's ex wife! We are all soooooo going to be pregnant this time next month! She ain't got a chance!

    Tina
    - I'm still totally stoked for you!!! When do you go back to Sydney? It better not be before I get to see you with a beautiful little bubba!!!
    PS. I think it's a girl hehehe.

    AJC - OMG OMG OMG! You're passed the magical 12 weeks! I wish I could pick you up and spin you around! LOL!

    Issy - I had a bum day yesterday. In fact, I didn't get out of my jimjams allllll day! I only took them off to shower and get into new jimjams for bed! There's no cleaning that can't be done in your jammies!

    WTH
    - It's not over yet honey, so don't lose hope. Your baby is obviously a strong little one with a beautiful heartbeat. Take comfort in knowing that you are doing everything possible for your little one, and that you are a wonderful mummy. I'll keep you in my thoughts and hope that your blood tests start giving you the results that you want

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    Tutmae
    - Oh my, your average temp is much lower than mine. I always feel cold (hate winter). DO you get cold easy? I guess it doesn't matter as long as your temp jumps after ovulation though! It's getting close to your fertile period so I hope you are getting ready

    Van
    - How frustrating that you chart is confusing you! It's confusing me too. I had a peek at it and wish I had some magical insight... but sorry nope. Maybe just keep bd'ing until you are 100% sure that you've ovulated?

    pbstar - Don't worry what anyone might think about you not calling your SIL. Only you can understand how her having a baby makes you feel. And you have to be true to yourself. Just remember that they love you too, and even if they don't understand right now, they will get over it. Your DH sounds like a real sweetheart

    Megsmum
    - I hope the pessaries help you get your BFP this month!


    AFM - I've tried to do a nice big post tonight because I'm not sure if I'll be on BB tomorrow. I can already feel myself getting really emotional because tomorrow I should have been 20 weeks pregnant. Even DH is feeling the strain and he's a bit down at the moment. I still sometimes pop into the belly buddies group I should have been in just to see what's happening with them and their babies, and to see what I should have been experiencing. It hurts to read about it and know what I don't have, but I feel like I just need to do it though. I can't really understand it myself.

    I bought a set of really cute bibs while I was shopping on Sunday. They were browny/green and had giraffes on them. So adorable. So I had a chat with my future-baby and told her that while I know she really wants to have the bibs, she's only allowed to have them once she becomes conceived. I think we've come to an understanding, and judging by how cute the bibs are, I'm sure she'll be conceived this month so she can have them

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    WTH - I am so sorry to hear your news - I hope that you have lots of support around you in the real world too... that your little bub is a fighter and can prove the ob wrong

    AFM - Am having a crazy hectic week at work and actually have to head off now to log on from home (yuck!). Like plc am an active lurker and have been keeping up with the reading. I think it's official though - this thread has to be the #1 most active thread in the history of ever! Waves and hellos and hugs to you all

    Stay positive lovelies

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    KL: My temps are low. I hope tthat's not a problem. Took my hubby's temp in yesterday night and mine too and they were both around 37.08.... Hmmm.... Maybe I sleep with my mouth open or something. I don't know. Does anyone have any info about low temps?
    And those bibs sound adorable! There's no doubt bubs will not be able to resist.

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    Ohhhh Kirsty Love.... I was seriously laughing out loud when I heard about you Biatch slappin Aunty Flow........How dare she talk back.... but when I was reading the scary movie section and the "mmmnnnghhhhh" ....... I LOST IT... I was eating popcorn.. .and laughed so much I nearly lost it.... I ve been sitting here repeating the noise.... "mmmnnnghhhhh" .... "mmmnnnghhhhh" ..... "mmmnnnghhhhh" still cracking me up.

    As for your 20 weeks... and lurking in the other thread.... you dont need to understand it and neither does anyone else.... do what you need to do to get through...... It doesnt matter what anyone else says... its not their pain to deal with its yours

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    hi Ladies,

    just touching base for the day...

    Angel - the acupuncture sounds great... how did you find an acupuncturist that specialised in conception??? Does your acupuncturist know a good one in Syd??

    Ruthie - i have my fingers crossed for you... I really hope you have a BFP in disguise, keep us posted

    Mollycat - hugs for you... we are all hear for you

    WTH - you poor thing... I am reaching through the computer and giving you huge hugs now

    KL - great idea with the bibs... I have a little jump suit my mum sent to me the friday before I MC, maybe I should pull it out of the draw and have it close to me

    Joey - cant wait to hear your next result !!!

    AFM - you can see I am supposed to start testing tomorrow. I have not bought any tests yet and am going out tomorrow night so will hold off until Thurs (I usually would have got AF Wed night as well), glad the TWW is over !!!!! Temp - please stay high

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    Tina CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! loads of

    Joey that line does get darker

    WTH Sorry about test results take care + keep up hope

    to everyone else

    AFM Have been really down this week f+f telling me to try to relax and it will happen, feel like they dont understand at least af has finally left.

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    hi girls,

    krystie: good on you for giving her what she deserves!!!!
    and those bibs sound too cute, how will she be able to resist?!
    so, a girl huh! what makes you think that????
    we go back to Sydney at the end of the year, bubba is due in March, so youll have to come to Sydney to see her (according to your predictions, he he he!!!!)

    chappas: thank you

    easha: ooohhhh, good luck for testing tomorrow! im waiting for you to join me in the July BFPs club

    pbstar: i completely understand your situation. my SIL is due next week. Im not sure how i will cope with it once she does have her bub, as my EDD is this week, so its a very emotional time for me. Im glad you have a wonderful supportive husband to help get you through this difficult time...

    be back in the morning for more...as for now...off to bed for this nanna...i was so tired today i left work early and come home for a nap!!!
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    Angel Babies - If it's any consolation, I laughed out loud when I pictured you repeating "mmmnnnghhhhh" with popcorn coming out of your mouth!
    What store did you buy your gift for always knowing the right thing to say? Thank you for your words

    Jenushka
    - It's nice to see you still lurking. I'm so glad your pregnancy is going so well

    Tutmae
    - I've read that it's more about patterns than the actual temperature when it comes to temping. So as long as you still get a rise after ovulation I'm sure it's fine.

    Easha - Yes! Pull out the jump suit! Nothing like a little incentive to get what you want Good luck with testing!!!

    Chappas
    - Next time someone one tells you you just need to relax, start poking them with your finger over and over. Then ask them if they can relax. Tell them that TTC is like something poking at your brain 24/7 and how are we supposed to relax?!

    Tina - I will definitely be coming to Sydney to meet your daughter! I don't know why, but I can sooooo picture you with a little pink bundle! By the time you have her my best friend should be back living in Sydney so I'll get to visit you and your bubba, and her and my "nephew" Spencer!

    How cute is this...? My DH has signed up to BellyBelly! He hasn't posted yet though. Oh Oh, does this mean I'm going to get busted for buying something for the baby?!

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    KrystieLove..... Well see... laughing is just the absolute best medicine... As for the other part about where I get what I write....noooo sorry... no store... it comes direct from the heart and I send it before I think about it. Maybe sometimes people dont like what I write but it comes straight from the heart

    As for DH signing up on BB... goodness... far to many things I write in here that DH doesnt need to know about... including when I m peeved at him ... but yet he knows all about all of you..... good on you for your DH signing up
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    WTH - I'm so sorry you are going through a hard time at the moment.


    Vanaithi- I hope you caught the egg!

    KL- I hope you didn't think that i thought no one else deserved their BFP. Only I remember when you first posted in this thread. It was around the same time as my ectopic. I was so scared, but remember thinking that you were feeling the same things I was feelings. I never posted at that time, but you helped me realise I wasn't alone.

    As for logging onto the Bellybuddy thread. I must admit I have done that too. I don't know why, it's torture.. I have been better recently. I can't imagine how painful it will be if come January and i'm not UTD. I know others here are going through that and I really feel for them.

    One more thing KL- i love your poking thingo. I might have to try that one out.

    tina - Yay!!

    AFM- (TMI warning) I had some slight brown cm today. 4 days after AF finished. I had this last month too. any ideas? I think it must be remnants of Af. Apart from that, just waiting to O. DH is desperate to get BDing. But I feel so down & just want to O and make a baby. . this up and down cycle we get ourselves into is terrible. How do we switch our brains off and stop thinking about TTC?

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    Sandygirl, I promise it never even crossed my mind that you might not have thought everyone deserved their BFP I know you are hoping just as hard as everyone else that we clear this thread as soon as possible and fill up the PAML thread! Man, imagine the party we'll start in there once we all move across!

    Angel - The best things DO come straight from the heart Feel free to keep it all flowing

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    That great. I'm not always good at expressing myself in writing. Especially after an exhausting day. I will def be at that party with bells. Showing off my Baby Bump..

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    Hi girls. Joey and Tina, congatulations! Got my fingers crossed for you that everything is, and stays, well

    Not really doing personals, as obviously, I haven't been on here very much. I've just been taking it easy this cycle and not really thinking about TTC..though I know we did BD the morning after I ovulated. Was glad to see I was still on the list, etc

    Good luck ladies, thinking of you all, even if I'm very quiet.

    Lisa xx

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