Just an update. Went to the Ob today who did another scan. Its even more clear now there’s a problem, even though its hearts beating, its moving around and waving its arm and is exact for dates!
I am having cvs testing next Wednesday to see if its chromosonal or not. My ob suspects its trisonomy 13 or 18 which is lethal so therefore would have a medical termination but there is a chance it will come back normal, though its something else like cystic hygroma or a heart thing which means it will die in early infancy. He said because it was picked up so early and its so severe at an early stage the chance of it being a normal baby is incredibly slim. He sees this type of thinking maybe once every 2 years. Just so upset at the moment. If we choose to leave it then after about 15 weeks I have to give birth and he wouldn’t do a ceasor because of the risk to my uterus since I already have had enough problems falling pregnant and keeping babies. So just doing more waiting now…