erybery - I'm so sorry hun What Hannah said is right though, slim is not impossible. Thinking of you.

coco - I had a natural m/c and my cycles pretty much went back to normal except for the last few months, I seem to have a really long cycle then a normal one! I know it is easier said than done but try not to drive yourself too crazy (although I do it to myself every month ). Hope you get your BFP.

Hannah - Choosing to take the meds takes courage and is in no way admitting defeat. Maybe by taking them it may lift your spirits and the positive energy might just help you get your BFP. Look after yourself hun

meh - Sounds like a good approach. We tried but I am not very good at not obsessing unfortunately

MO3B - I know how you feel - I am 5 days late today. I hope you get an answer soon - preferably a BFP!

babymiracles - Well I will wish you a big now! And will throw in some for good measure!

Possums - Oh, sweetie. I can't imagine what you are going through . I am glad you have found the strength to keep trying. I hope you get your forever baby soon.

Sally - How did the acupuncture go?

AFM - Well 5 days late and still no AF. Called my FS today to get a blood test done as I wanted (and needed) to know before we went to Melbourne. It was negative so this month isn't our month It was always a long shot the first month after the op. Well, I intend to go to Melbourne and shop up a storm. Going to let my hair down and do out dancing and have a few drinks too! I am not a big drinker at all but I think DH and I deserve to spoil ourselves and relax and not worry about things. I'M kind of sick of being careful about everything I do or eat or drink, it doesn't seem to be helping.

Big HELLO to everyone else. Sorry for lack of names, need to go and pack and start dinner. Will try to pop in later.