Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ May 08 #4

[Abbey B]

Abbey - It really does get daunting trying to continuously lift for TTC. I'm sure that its not that he doesn't want to TTC, I really think that guys dont understand that it such a complicated process getting pregnant. My DH is only just starting to work out why everything has to be planned so well (after 7 months of TTC). I have worked out over the past couple of months that it is too much pressure trying to BD every day. It becomes more of a chore rather than an intimate encounter, DH was especially feeling that we had lost the fun of the whole thing. I think there is a risk of depleting the sperm stores to. I think its safe to assume that if our guys drink beer regularly, they will have slightly lower sperm counts (alcohol is one of the worst things apparently). So if that is the case, it's probably better to just BD every second day. Bc sperm can live so long in fertile CM, if you BD'ed yesterday, that should be ok. Maybe he will feel like it again tomorrow, if you O tonight, you can still catch it tomorrow but hopefully the sperm are still there waiting as we speak.

We BD'ed sunday and monday night and tried to this afternoon so hopefully OH will want it tonight after work. He watched "One night in paris" this afternoon before work and got all happy over it so we'll see... He doesnt drink but does wear tighty whitey undies. I think that there is enough spermies up there (LOL sorry TMI) because im having difficulty determining whether its CM or just semen leaking out

[jen805]

Where there's hope--My second cycle after AF was so light--had 7 days of barely more than spotting--but my cramps seemed less painful. Probably a good idea to check with your dr just to make sure. Hope things are well with you!


AJC-- brown spots stay away! Can't wait until your u/s--5 sleeps to go until you see that little beating We'll all miss you when you decide to move on to the PAML thread--please stick around for as long as possible!


SaraJane--Will add you to the TWW list! Good luck catching that egg!


Vanaithi--Good luck and have fun with the temp position! Glad to hear we'll get to see you more often for a while. Yay for end of AF! So does that put you at about CD5? Will add to list, and I'll change it if it's wrong.


issy--Interesting reading about the Jonas theory, huh? Wouldn't that be the coolest if it were actually right? I'm hard!!! Sounds like you BD'd at all the right times, so I've got everything crossed for you! And a girl(!!!!!)--mine said G?, but a month ago when I tried it, it said boy, so I'll just take what I can get!


jenushka--:woot: for O!!!! I did some research on preseed, and wanted to give it a try myself but didn't get around to placing the order. I do plan on ordering some if no BFP this month. I don't usually have much EWCM, and DF and I always use lube, which supposedly kills the important little so I figured I'd give it a try next mo... I'm hoping I won't need it! Good girl for keeping an "eye on the prize"!


Abbey--Sometimes men can be so frustrating--especially if they're in the mood all the time except for right when you need them to be! That's when you need a strippers pole or something in your room to get things going! lol... no, I don't have one and have never used one! But I did watch a show where women can learn to dance on the pole, and you can even buy them now for your home! I'm not graceful enough for that, I'd probably slide off the pole and break my leg or something! lol...


bettyboop--Praying the opk helps bring you a quick BFP!!!


Angel babies--Thanks so much for the baby dust and sticky vibes--hope you kept some spares for yourself!!!


Thanks again Dr. Jodsan for always having all the answers!

[jen805]

Emmy-Lou-- BFP
Here's an updated list for the new thread!


Mel--BFP
Canary--BFP
AJC--BFP
plc--BFP
mmteacher--BFP
rainbowgirl--BFP
seenabeena--BFP
Katiegirl--BFP
Anthonysmom--BFP
nickster--BFP
JMG--BFP
Trac--BFP
Magda--BFP
ll80--BFP
Natty--??
mollycat--TWW
issy--TWW
Acria--TWW
megsmum--TWW
Antheia--TWW
pbstar--TWW
jen--TWW
SaraJane--TWW
KrystieLove--TWW
jenushka-- O
tina--almost O
Abbey-- O
bettyboop--almost O
smilanatu--almost O
tempus--
treelo--
Jodsan--CD8
tutmae--
Angel babies--Had to still list you--you're missed!
Cierasmummy--
karan--
Vanaithi--CD9
Toccara--
LizJessie--Had to still list you, too! Hope you come back soon!
WTH--CD2
Mazibelle--