Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ May 08 #4

[Heaven]

mollycat- hope you O soon and catch that egg! Hang on, just read further, where are you at in your cycle? hm...I'm confused, i hope that was a bit of implantation bleeding!
vanaithi- how r u? Hope you're getting plenty of BD in!
AJC- YAY!!!! How exciting, I'm so glad to hear everything is going well and you got to see the baby!
issy- thanks, good thought, I will concentrate on that with the moving, that I get to clean everything out! Good to hear you're feeling good!
pbstar- hey, maybe you have ovulated and your temps just aren't as high as usual, that's what's happening to me this time, did you read what krystielove said back a bit about different ovaries??
Jodsan- Thankyou! How are you going?
jenushka- yay for the pos opk!
jen- thanks! that's true, I won't have time to think about the TWW with moving! Yay! Oh no, sorry about AF. I think the cervix is right, it opens up when AF comes, and also I think a bit of watery or ewcm just before AF is normal coz it's the corpus luteum or something coming out.
smilinatu- Good luck catching the egg!!
Mel- Glad your trip went ok
megsmum- not long till testing now, I really hope this is it for you.
Acria- Hello! Sorry to hear you're feeling a bit down Oh no, I hope that's just some left over implantation bleeding!
Abbey- Yay for the ewcm!! you caught the egg!
plc- Yay for the BT results!!

Ok, think I'm caught up. I had an acupuncture appt this morning and he said that he thinks I have definately O'd even if my temps aren't as high as usual, and my temp went up more this morning so yay! He gave me some herbs that are meant to help with the temp going higher, i think maybe they help ur body produce more progesterone maybe, and they also help with possible implantation, yay. But now he's away for 3 weeks, ahhh...I hoped he's be here for the start of my next cycle so we can get it all on track and hopefully O earlier!
Well I hope everyone is having a good weekend!!

[Jodsan]

Acria -It sounds exactly like an implantation bleed to me (that's what I had when I was pg with DS). It's more like pink CM? How many DPO are you?

Jen - I'm with SaraJane, my cervix opens 3-4 days b4 AF and I get watery CM (it's much more watery than EW) for a couple of days. Really sorry about AF.

Hi everyone else!!

[Acria]

Hey girls. Just got home from work after having a great day. My spotting, or whatever it is, has stayed steady all day. There's almost nothing there, just a hint of pinky brown when I wipe. I put a pad on just in case, and there's virtually nothing on it. [TMI warning] When I wiped at one point there was quite a bit of CM with some pink and brown blood, and since then it's only been very little. So I still have hope!

Your messages have picked me right up also and made me feel a lot better. And my Bbs still hurt! I might still be pregnant after all! Now to wonder how long I can hold on until I test

Lisa xx

Edit: oh, and I think I'm 12/13 DPO.

[nicksterUK]

Just wanted to drop in and throw a few tonnes of babydust over you all.... xxx
Got everything crossed for some lovely BFP's this month

Acria (hello, we haven't met...sounds EXACTLY like impantation bleeding to me WOOHOO!) I really hope this is it- and you can set off a wonderful chain for the other ladies (it seems the BFP's here all bunch together...3-4 in one go, and then nothing for weeks. Very odd, but you go girl )

Hi to everyone else, I don't drop in so much atm cos work is crazy (exam season) and I'm exhausted in the evenings so usually crash out by 10pm). You are always in my thoughts, and I do go back through all the threads I've missed but not a chance of doing personals with so much going on and so many new faces. I wish you all the very best tho!

afm- well, i have my 20 week scan next week (yay) and heard the heartbeat again this week, good and strong. No more bleeding since the 11 week scare, and praying it stays that way. Belly is the size of a soccer ball, perfectly round and firm so I'm very happy with my cute, neat bump. Have felt bubs moving around too, but DH can't feel it yet.

Big hugs and stacks of babydust for you all.
ps I am not going tp PAML thread at all, just doesn't feel right. I'll just drop in here now and then for a catchup and a gossip xx (Acria, I'll defo be back to see how you go xx)

[jen805]

mollycat--Sorry to hear you're still in limbo with your goofy cycle. I guess that's the one good thing about AF showing for me--at least now I know what CD I am! you get some answers soon!


pbstar--Hey, hun, thanks for thinking of me! I never realized that it was common to get watery CM and for your cervix to open before AF-- but has never happened for me before that I've been aware of, so it threw me off. I'm still in shock, it was definitely unexpected, even though AF was due today. your TWW ends with a surprising BFP!


plc--Your words are always so eloquent, thanks for your constant support! I truly hope you're enjoying your pregnancy--it's going to be over before you know it!


Acria--Your symptoms still sound really promising! your spotting is due to implantation bleeding! I'm waiting in anticipation to see a BFP announcement from you--good luck POAS!


AJC--Always good to get more sticky vibes and baby dust--thanks for that! Hope your feeling good and enjoying rubbing that belly (even if you don't have one yet, I'm sure you're getting lots of belly rubs in!)


issy--I'm realizing now that I definitely need to buy a thermometer so I can start temping this cycle! Thought I'd give it a go without temping, but the inconsistency is making me crazy! I guess I can't really expect my chart to be accurate if I'm only going by CM, I just never knew it was common to get watery CM more than once during a cycle. It's just nasty AF playing tricks on my mind! My fingers are still crossed for you this cycle-- you'll be surprised with a BFP--they're always the best when they're unexpected!


bettyboop--Sorry your cycle's so goofy this month, as well! Fingers, legs, toes, and eyes are crossed for June!


SaraJane--:goodluck2: with the accupuncture, herbs, and O! Hope it helps regulate your cycle!


Jodsan--I was under the impression that the only time your cervix opened was when O! I think it was just AF's way of "sticking it to me" by giving me false hope I drowned my sorrows last night with a Mike's hard lemonade (was out of rum for daquiri's), and this morning am drowning myself in coffee. Back on the train for another bumpy ride... Hope things are well with you and you're enjoying your weekend!


nickster--Thanks for checking on us! It's always good to hear from you! Good luck next week on your 20 wk scan--my gosh, I can't believe you're 20 weeks already! Hope you're enjoying your I wish I could rub your tummy for good luck--I could sure use it!


Hi's and hugs for everyone else! Thinking of you all always! In fact, it's pretty bad--we're going camping for 5 days in June and I've got to try to get a card for my DSD's laptop so I can log online so I don't miss you girls! I honestly can't imagine 5 days away from BB and away from all your support! Thanks to all of you for getting me through!

[jen805]

Ok, just placed an order for preseed and a thermometer! It's time to get serious here... no more uncertainty! Now, hopefully the thermometer gets here before AF leaves so I can start temping! You are supposed to wait till after to begin temping, right?





MistyFying--was wondering if it's ok to add my chart to my signature? Or can I not have both my chart and a ticker, and all the text? Thanks, just don't want to get an infraction!

[jen805]

Hey Jodsan, I had another question about the Jonas method. I checked to see my fertile day for June, my chart is predicting O on the 16th. Jonas calendar shows the 16th, but says fertile 24 hours before date shown (which would make my fertile day right on my predicted O day!). But here's my question: under the lunarium calendar the only date that shows my moon sign is June 6th--what's the difference between the lunarium calendar and the Jonas calendar? Does that mean I could possibly conceive on the 6th and the 15th? Thanks, I'm sorry to always burden you with so many questions--I appreciate your opinion very much!