Hi Susie. Welcome aboard. I am so sorry about your loss and hope your time in here is short. I so totally agree with the friends not quite getting it. I wish I had of found these awesome girls 12 months ago. Not much to add to the other comments about how long to wait. I had a month off after the first and last to give myself a break both emothionally and physically. But I think people and recovery times are different.

Lisa - you have to love dtd just for the fun of it. We had our final O run this morning, so I think DH needs a bit of a break IYKWIM.

Janine - welcome back. Good luck with the BD fest. Look back over the posts and find the info on the pretzel position.

Mako and Cilmum - how are you guys going with testing etc etc. We are waiting for some news

Shan - short and sweet visits are the best. I think we all have issues with mothers and MIL's and SIL's. I could write a book on my SIL but it wouldn't be worth my time At least we can pick our friends LOL

To everyone else I hope you have a great day. I have a ripping headache as I am down to 1 dose of caffiene per day (diet thingy). Take care and happy to those who are close to O'ing.