Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ November 2006 #2

[Tanya]

Lisa, great to hear that you are feeling good this cycle I am feeling quietly optomisic too... I hope it is for good reason... it isn't the first time I have felt optomistic and nothing has come of it

Janine... I have no idea about baby oil...? I have used raw egg whites b4, maybe that might be worth a try?

Nic, I hope those symptoms are for real!!! I have heard some girls say they had pg symtptoms from about 5dpo... so yep, they could be pg syptoms

Anyway, not much going on here... AF left early I think it is because I had 2.5 days of spotting b4 she got here...
TL

Tanya

[*Elle*]

good morning girls,

OMG what is with this heat I am slowly melting away at this point I just want to sit in my car all the time atleast it has aircon Jeff siad this morning that he is going to fill the car up with petrol and sleep init tonight LMAO but I tell ya what it is so tempting I am never cope with hot weather and it has always caused me probs my whole life but what is with this sticky hot now breeze weather its driving me nuts boohoo, ok vent/rant is over hehehe.

Lisa what you said about your first daughters middle name being faith or hope is just so beautiful I have always loved those names and said to Jeff a while back I would love to name a girl faith I just really love it, I have a special feeling for you this month to hun, lol at telling dh when you are dtd hehehehe ahh men they get so excited dont they then they just get tired LOL, you go girl you catch that eggie. and of course have fun too

Janine I am glad one of us has aircon LOL mum is trying to get an aircon this week so fingers crossed but the only place it will be able to go is in the kitchen window as we live on a corner and the side of the house meets the footpath so we cant put it there so looks like we will all be sleeping in the kitchen LMAO hahahaha how funny will that be 6 adults and 2 kids plus 5 dogs 2 cats *one pg* a bird and a fish OMG you can just imagine it cant you *ps... we only have this many animals cause we are temporarily staying with mum in her home we are not crazy animal freaks LOL*

hope I am thinking of you hun and am sure everything will be ok, sending you great big hugs babe.

a great big hello to anyon I have not mentioned just to hot and to tired to sit here at the mo so will hopefully pop back in a bit later.

take care

[Megan76]

Hi everyone,
Sorry i haven't had time to catch up on what's been going on with everyone! I hope you are all in positive places!!!!

I have my first scan tonight so i am absolutely packing myself! Will let you know how its goes!

[aussienic]

Nauseous again today.. Almost as soon as I woke up I got it and it is here almost constantly. I wonder how early I can test?

Janine: I was just googling the baby oil question and the only thing I found was that it can break a condom lol I don't know anything else though..

[LisaL]

Megan - good luck sweety - sending you loads of hugs and sticky vibes XX

[mako]

Hi

Sorry I haven't been in here for a couple of days. I have been feeling a little lost but am ok now. I had my appointment with specialist yesterday and am happy to say that we now have an action plan.
The first thing she asked me was where I was up to with af. When I told her that she was due yesterday, she asked me if I'd tested yet.When I told her I hadn't she went to hand me a little container to do a preg test. I think she was a liitle shocked when I refused. She asked why I didn't want to test and I explained to her that no matter how much time we had, there is absolutely no way in this world I could pee into a container. I have never been able to lol. So anyway we agreed that if af hasn't arrived by Friday that I would test then as I need to start taking some other meds to help prevent m/c.
However if af does visit I need to start taking metformin and clomid this next cycle and I'll go back to see her in January and will need to start IUI.
So at this point in time there's no sign of af and no preg symptoms either, so we'll wait and see what happens.

Lisal, thanks for asking about me. How are you going? lol at you telling dh when you guys can bd. Good luck to you this cycle.

Amym, lol, I can just imagine you and your family sleeping in the kitchen with all the animals. Sounds so much like something I would do. Hope that little bubba is behaving itself lol.

Hope, I hope everything is ok with you and your little bean. Let us know how you are ok.

Megan, good luck with your scan today.Let us know how it goes.

Aussinic, Have you tested yet? Sounds really good hun. Have my fingers crossed for you.

A big hello to Lou, Janine, Chepie and everyone else I've missed. Will try to catch up with you all soon.

[LisaL]

Mako - Im praying that af doesnt show and you get two lines on Friday when you test!! Keep us posted.

How do you feel about the action plan? Do you feel better now at least you know things will get moving if that witch does infact arrive. But still praying you dont have to go down that path!

Lisa

[aussienic]

Mako how soon can I test though? I think I O'ed 5 days ago which to me is to son but if I am getting symtoms then maybe it isn't to soon... I should just bite the bullet and get a 2 test pack and go for it lol

[LisaL]

Nic - Id wait til at least 10dpo - even though you are feeling nauseas, your hcg levels might still be too low to pick up on a hpt at 5dpo. I know its hard but try and hold out til then

[*Shan*]

Hi Girls,

I just want to pop in quickly to wish MEGAN all the best with her scan. We'll be thinking of you hun...xxx

Oh yeah - Lisa, the job hunting sux....i'm getting absolutely nowhere!!!!!

I'll try and pop back later, but wishing you all heaps of babydust...

[aussienic]

Nic - Id wait til at least 10dpo - even though you are feeling nauseas, your hcg levels might still be too low to pick up on a hpt at 5dpo. I know its hard but try and hold out til then

I think I will wait till AF is actually due otherwise I will just get disappointed..

[Megan76]

Just had a read and tried to catch up, but honestly, my brain is too focussed on this damn scan and i can't concentrate! So sorry everyone, i hope you are all doing well.

Two things i do remember...
Hope - i hope you are ok, i can just imagine how you are freaking out and i think you should have a scan just to ease your mind....thinking of you!

Lisa - i just freaked out when i read your post about having Hope or Faith for your daughters middle name...I have been thinking the EXACT same thing!!!!!! That is so so weird. I just think it is so perfect after everything we have gone through and i actually started thinking about it cos of the Hope in here!! Also, i went to a hen's sat night too, wonder if it was the same one...ha ha!!

Good luck with the BDing and testing and symptoms and everything everyone!!!!!!!!!

[Megan76]

P.S - thanks for all the good luck wishes for tonight everyone!!

[mako]

OH Shan I hope something good comes out of all the job hunting. It can be a frustrating time can't it. I hate the fact that you go to soooo much effort in getting resumes out there and employers don't have the decentsey to even send a letter of aknowledgement. Anyhoo best of luck sweet.

LisaL, my feelings are mixed atm. One minute I'm happy as I have a direction and another minute I'm quite sad that we may actually need to go down this path IYKWIM. Deep down I'm really hoping that I'm preg now so I don't need to worry about any of this, But only time will tell.

Aussinic, I can test anytime now but think I'll wait out til Friday. I would love to know now but my last cycle went 38 days and I'm on cd 36 today so I'll wait until then. I also don't work Fridays so either way I'll be able to deal with the outcome no matter what it is, at home instead of at work.
What cd are you on atm? And when is af due??

Will pop back in later

[LisaL]

OMG Megan - how freaky is that about the name thing - I think we will both have girls anyway so we can use them! Yours will be a bit older than mine though Praying really hard for the best results for your scan sweety. I was at Moonee Valley and then to an Irish Pub in Essendon.......

Mako - I totally KWYM about being sad but optimistic at the same time. Whatever happens hun, just know that we are here to support you and help you towards that bfp Praying that af stays away though.

Nic - lets revisit the 'should I test' question again at 10dpo - cause then you might really want to test especially if more symptoms kick in. Praying for you sweets.

Shan - so your officially in the tww?? Hope the job hunting goes quicker than the tww!

Tanya - I feel overly optimistic this month, and like you I have had months where Ive had the same feeling and nothing - af turns up - but this month i'll be praying extra hard for all of us! I hope our 'feelings' are right though!

have a great night - I will be back later to check Megan's scan results - but thinking of you Megan and cant wait to hear happy news

[hindonly]

Hi everyone - well pretty sure af has come to visit me. V. light though and not much cramping either. But it must be I s'pose!
Not too bothered since it will be the first cycle after the m/c so we'll be in full swing in the next 14 days:-) For Sure. At least I'll know where I am now CD wise!
Funny I actually thought I was pregnant. Been feeling nauseas on and off for days now - Oh Well. Next time!
GL to everyone else waiting to test:-)

[Hope]

Just dropping in to say GOODLUCK MEGAN!! I'm sure it will all go swimmingly. I'll be checking back in later and will look forward to hearing your good news. MEGAN I must also let you know after your previous comment that Hope is not actually my real name-- oooh a reveal!! It just seemed very apt when I joined BB as hope was all that was/is keeping me going. My real name is Leah but let's keep it on the quiet. I quite like being Hope in here. The other funny or rather coincidental thing is that my sister's name is Meaghan (not the same spelling I know but coincidental nonetheless)!

[chepie]

GOOD LUCK MEGAN