Hi Deb. I totally agree with you. I had my m/c's all around the same stage and knew that something wasn't right. My periods were nothing like they use to be before I had Sam - severe cramping, pain, bleeding and short irregular cycles. People kept telling me that your period changes after having a child and that became my rationale for a while. I saw different GP's, my ob, did numerous tests and felt like a pin cushion. My GP couldn't even point me in the right direction of who I should see - I did the research myself!!!!
I even went to see a FS who also said it was just 'bad luck' and to stop doing early PT's and he ordered chromosome testing just to ease my mind. I started seeing an acupuncturist who seemed it was my uterus not holding the pregnancies and was also a bit concerned about my ovaries.
So after reaching my lowest point, DH persuaded me to see another FS at the MACC in Melbourne. I got an appointment straight away and saw Dr Mac Talbot who is their leading doctor. After explaining things he told me what he thought and had me booked in for a laparoscopy, hysteroscopy and D/C which found endo around my right ovary, fallopian tube and uterus plus an ovarian cyst . An in depth ultrasound plus family history of Diabetes also brought about his diagnosis of mild PCOS which affects the hormones/egg quality/ovulation due to insulin resistance. I am now on Metformin which is a drug that regulates insulin thus regulating hormones etc . So after getting AF today, I will start my second month on it and then start on clomid. I must say that Dr Mac Talbot was my life saver....he answered all my questions, has eased the pain a little and has reignited my hope and determination. It's just a shame it has taken 2 and half years to get here. My advice to others would be to find answers when you are not given any....and even alternative medicine is worth a look in!!!

Lou