Jen & PLC - thanks I just wish AF would show up a little quieter (if she really has to visit at all). I think having the headaches just makes it so much worse. I'll try and join you in chat (if I can work out java - for some reason it doesn't like my computer) although I also have the problem of staying awake long enough

I know I still find it hard to talk about my m/c to most people as i'm still very emotional. Maybe when I finally am pg again, then it will be easier.

Milla - let's hope that when AF leaves you she doesn't come back for a very long time.