thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 2008

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    Toccara--Good morning! Beginning my morning with lots of for a healthy, happy pg'cy for you and mega



    WTH-- and hugs!



    Ruthie--Glad to hear your parent's are ok! I'm sure you're very relieved!



    mollycat--Whew, all this blowing around the new thread is making me sneeze! Thanks for the I'm hugging you back!

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    Easha--Woo hoo! Your stats are looking great! I'm you caught that little egg! Hope your TWW flies by, and you're blessed with a BFP!!



    Tam--Always sounds weird to say around here, but Congrats on the arrival of AF!! I pray that your TTC journey is a short, sweet ride on a smooth, newly-paved path heading straight to a BFP!! OMG, and beware, BB is highly addictive!! lol...



    Leyza-- Congrats on your BFP!! Good luck with your move over to the PAML thread--feel free to hang out with us for as long as you need!



    fifi & larz--Hope the m/s is abating! How did that lemon work out?



    joey! You've been MIA... hope all is going well with you!

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    jenushka--Hope you're still enjoying and taking advantage of some much-needed time off from work! Thinking of you all the time!



    Angel--Lot's of for your BFP! Missin' you and always thinking of you! Hugs and *kiss*



    to chappas & megsmum!




    smi--

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    Hello, Eveyone and good morning/or day

    Layza-Congrats to the test being oober + Thats a good thing!!! Have a wonderful 9 months darling.



    As For Me-Last night was soo Horrible for me, Its 50 degrees outside & I was drying my exes jeans (no they didn't have a lighter or paper in them) I had washed them to get stains out and didn't ring out the water I just threw it in the dryer the next thing I know I was smelling something weird like a burning smell I go in there because its the only thing that was running and fire was coming out of our dryer I opened it up and BOOM big ball of fire comes out ashes went onto some clothes on the floor and burnt holes in those, my first instint was poor water and poor and poor till its out so I did that, Then I got the girls which only sleep in diapers and put them outside with a blanket over there heads IN FREEZING RAIN weather, I came in opened windows doors and fans turned on, I put them in my car and then turned heat up. Came back inside and made febreeze and lysol bombs I put tape on the handles and sit them in each room and went to sit in the car with the girls (which got awakend by smoke and fire alarms and me) then I brought them upstair put them back in bed cuz the smoke was gone but the smell still stinked not too bad though. My 2 year old went back to bed right away, My 1 year old WAS UP ALL NIGHT SCREAMING! she wouldnt take her milk or food or nothing just screamed so I let her do that in bed, She woke my 2 year old up at 3 so I had no Sleep today!!!!

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    KL - massive for you hun

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    maybebaby23 Guest

    Sounds like quite an evening baby. If it wasn't a lighter, then what caused the fire?

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    Can anyone tell me whether or not on a O strip, if there's 2 lines, but the second line is lighter than the control line, that means negative, right? It also says best time to test is between 11-3, and 5-10, and I did mine at 3:30... should I do a second one later tonight, or just wait until tomorrow? Thanks!

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    ByTheOcean Guest

    Hi Jen805, I haven't posted much on the boards at all except after my miscarriage, but can answer this one I think!

    If the second line is lighter, you haven't had your LH surge yet. The LH surge usually occurs early in the morning (ie in the hours after midnight), and it can take up to 8 hours for the LH levels to show in the urine sample, which is why its best to test during the day (the ones I use say between 11 and 3). If I had your result, I would probably test at 11 tomorrow morning (that said, I am impatient and this month when I had a lighter line I did one later that night - still light).

    What usually happens to me is I have two days where the line is light (so 'negative') and then after that I'll get a definite 'positive'. I'm sure there's no science to it, but I kind of take the lighter lines as an early warning system that the LH surge is a-comin'.

    Hope this helps!
    Last edited by ByTheOcean; September 5th, 2008 at 05:40 PM. : edited for bad typing...

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    I'm in tears.. sobbing.. NAME IT! !I'm BLEEDING!!! OMG NOOO.. OMG my 3rd miscarriage??.. No.. I can't.. I can't with this!! OMG NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

    Someone make it stop!! PLEASE!!

    I called my 2 best friends and they don;t answer!!.. What do I do??.. hubby is not home yet and I have not one red cent!!.. DAMN it WHY ME???? I want this baby so bad!! I worked so hard!!!

    Guess go to ER....

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    BytheOcean! Thanks so much for the info on the O strips!

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    Ruthie - so sorry to hear about your parents. really hard for them and hope they will be ok.

    Jen - m/s is so bad, didn't come to work yesterday! slept till
    3pm and then was up all night. Nothing seems to help, just sleep

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    Ruthie--Oh, no, hon! Ok, is there anyone else you can call that can take you to the ER? Stay off your feet as much as possible until you can get to the ER... don't give up yet, Ruthie! Stay as calm as possible-- I know, I know, it's so hard and you're so scared, but you have to think about your baby and just try to relax! I'm saying so many for you and your little one!
    Last edited by jen805; September 5th, 2008 at 10:29 AM.

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    Tam thank you so much sweetie that makes me feel a lot better ...

    Jen thanks for all the sticky vibes and prayers my emotion are all over the place so reading all your post helps a lot ... do you have an IM ???

    AFM still praying and hoping for the best I'm so worried something will go wrong I can't wait until my next doc appt only ten days away ...

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    Morning gurlies...you've got me in tears at my desk! I just love you ladies to pieces...miles apart and yet you are such wonderful friends...I'm glad I found you!

    Angel... my luck I'd fall in love with one of the created men...as I am sure he'd be very sensitive to my needs

    jen...thanks so much for the email smiles!

    mollycat...I thought I was strong but this is beating my butt!

    Okay ladies...new month...new hope...time to catch ...ready set...get those

    Especially you Krystie...it's time!