Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 2008

[Babyfever2007]

BIG CONGRATS JOEY!!!.. I knew you would have a bfp.. Big

[larz]

Joey - a big congrats BFP YAY!!!

RUTHIE - your still in my thoughts and haven't stoppped thinking about you all weekend, i know it is impossible to feel better so soon but I hope you are a little more at ease this week. sending lots of

Toccara - I didn't realise you had also lost your little bub, I am so sorry to hear that and sending you lots

Me - I'm still going ok as far as I can tell, have some anti nausea pills that seem to be working but still feeling really tired and crappy most of the time. Counting down the days till the next u/s which I think is at 12 weeks. Going to see my doctor this afternoon and hope he can reassure me.

[AJC]

Yay Joey - CONGRATULATIONS ! ! ! Wishing you a very happy & healthy pregnancy! ! !
this little one is a really sticky one.

[plc1805]

Joey - big big big CONGRATS sweet - - well done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

jenushka, ruthie, toccara - thinking of you heaps

toccara - sweet, sorry for your circumstance, understand your decision, please come back when the time is right

ruthie - birthday wishes for yesterday - my present to you is the warmest hug I can muster

hello lovely ladies - plenty of hugs to go around - I can't help but be a touchy-feely sorta girl

[~ Mylitta ~]

Joey! I am so happy for you! Looks like your instincts were right, there really IS a little bubba growing in your belly! As stressful as the beginning of your pregnancy might be, don't forget to cherish every moment with your baby! Enjoy every second. And in about 8 months give your baby a big hug and kiss for us all!!!

[MistyFying]

New thread time everyone. Here you go.

[Tuesday's Child]

Sometimes people say the stupidest things. When I told one of my closest friends that I'd miscarried she actually said "oh well, at least you can have fun trying again". WTF!!! That took the cake for all the stupid comments I've had to put up with over the last few weeks.

Well AF has been and gone. It was a lot harder than I thought it would be. I thought it was a good sign that my body was getting back to normal ( and my GP did confirm that it meant my lining had built back up after the D&C), but it was so painful. I didn't have any pain for the first 3 days and then on the 4th it just came out of nowhere. I've had cramping on the first 1-2 days before, but I actually had sharp stabbing similar to m/c. It just brought all the grief and pain back. It reminded me that things have changed and I'm not the same person I was a few months ago. My body won't ever be the same again. It has been changed by pregnancy and now there is no baby to show for it. Now I'm not sure whether I'm really ready to TTC again. If the pain can reach up and grab you, just when you think you can cope again.

Sorry for the rant...just had to get it out.