MegsMum - I'm glad you're feeling better about the news. It can't hurt to give this cycle a whirl, can it? And you never know what might happen. Satya- I can't believe how insensitive the people around you have been. Even if they've not been through what you have, they should be able to manage some sympathy. Sometimes pg ppl or ppl with kids often just ramble on & on about how wonderful their kids/experiences are, without stopping to think about how hurtful their words might be. I am so sorry for everything you've been through. But I have faith in your new doc & his plan of action. Not that a lap is exactly a walk in the park. I hope this one heals better than the last.
My history is that my last pg was a blighted ovum that stopped growing at 6wks. Had my first scan at 9wks, where there was no heartbeat. Because my body showed no signs of letting go of the placenta, I was scheduled for a D&C. My HCG was high, I'd had no cramping or spotting & naively assumed everything was fine. This time we conceived twins naturally, even though there are no twins in my family. So I'm a bit worried that my body is running out of eggs & is spitting them out double time. But if these twins survive & are healthy, I don't give 2 hoots about the rest of my eggs. Rachael - LOL were the mum & dad 14? They could always go with Sik Mate or Choice Bro. Your 2nd honeymoon sounds lovely. You've had a rough time recently and really deserve a good break. Bun - Wouldn't it be great to have that innocence back? Your DH is obviously a straight talker LOL I'm glad you're feeling more confident with each day. I'm sure everything will go well, you'll get good news at the ob & have a fantastic hol. ShoeGal - Great to see you back! Its also good that your cycle has come back as regular. Good luck for a BFP this cycle. Las - I am so sorry. It must be sooooo hard to know & then wait. Do you still have a bit of hope inside? I have hope for you. Salt - I just read a novel about interpreting dreams (Queen of Dreams). I wonder what they mean too. I hope your dreams come true. Got everything crossed for you hon.
I had another scary day. I bled again, this time it was redder, and there were membranes in it (like the skin inside the shell of a hard boiled egg, only dark red). I just calmly shut down my PC, told people I was sick & going home, then went home. The weird thing was, that I was sure I was m/cing but I was so calm. Like I'm all cried out. I haven't bled since, but I feel like I am having a m/c in slow-mo. A little bit every day.
On the other hand, at 7wks, I am soooo uncomfortable. I don't fit into any of my jeans or trousers anymore. And it feels like there's no room for food in my tummy. But that was this morning. Now I'm at home in drawstring tracky-daks & feel ok. I'm not complaining, I'd rather feel uncomfortable but reassured that my pg might be going ok.
Because I had a D&C instead of m/c-ing naturally last time, I don't know what to expect at all. Do you mind if I ask what happened for you girls? What colour, cramping, does it all happen in a rush? I don't mean to be insensitive. I just want to be able to identify whether I have m/c-ed or am m/c-ing.
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