Susan,

Most of us in here get really really down when our AF arrives. It's like it makes it official that you are not pregnant. It happens even on cycles when you aren't trying or didn't think that you would be pregnant. You can just hit rock bottom instantly. I've been like that every cycle I've had since my m/c. That's one of the reasons I post in here. All the ladies in here understand the ups and downs of ttc after a m/c and that's something that those that have not been through it cannot understand.

It's all quite normal so don't worry about it, it generally lifts after your AF disappears and then you get excited about the thought of getting pregnant again in this cycle. Then if it doesn't happen and you start to feel your AF coming on you start heading down again - your mood tends to just follow your cycle like that. At the moment I'm in great spirits (even though I'm annoyed with my body right now) but give it another week and I'll probably be heading downwards again unless shock of all shocks I get a BFP (not very likely I'm afraid).