TTC After Miscarriage or Loss June 07

[nicjay]

Hi everyone,

Well its a new month with a brand new internet allowance so I am back! LOL Sorry for the lack of personals last time I posted.

Susan - I hope you are feeling a bit better today - I don't have any words of wisdom to add, satya and Kerry gave you very good advice I think

satya - don't you hate it when your body does that to you? I hope things settle down for you soon! I'm a bit the same this cycle and I'm really just ignoring everything as best I can because I am absolutely convinced it won't happen for us this cycle

Two Mums - sorry you had no luck last cycle, but good luck for this one!

Leyla - dratted AF!!!! I hope you are feeling better today. Good on you for having another go though - I will have fingers, legs, everything crossed for you!!

Lisa - I am so sorry for your loss, but hoping against hope that maybe things might still be OK for you? I hope you managed to have a nice day for your DS's birthday

pash - I am so sorry again for what has happened, it is not fair! I hope you are keeping as well as can be expected and that you don't have to wait 6 months before TTC again

Beaksie - so sorry for your losses

Salt - I'm so sorry to hear that rotten AF arrived Damn! I hope you are feeling a little bit better today. That is great that your parents op went well, that must be a big relief to you too.

Bun - I hope you are doing OK? All the best for your scan I know everything will be fine!

Also, I know its very late, but happy birthday to Claire and Leyla!

Hi to everyone I've missed, hope you are all well

Well DH and I have given it our best shot for this month, now its in the lap of the gods so to speak LOL But I don't have a lot of hope really. I'm fully expecting to be starting the Clomid in about a week or so.

My DD decided to be of such a caring, sharing nature LOL that she gave me her flu - I have been sick as a dog since late last week with fever and aches and pains as well as snot everywhere!! At least I'm better today though

And of course the flu and the fever were on the critical days of the month for temping and BDing *rolls eyes* We managed to BD on 2 of the nights I was sick (barely!!) but I reckon I could have ovulated anywhere between day 11 and day 14, even though FF has given me a coverline for day 11. I guess it just does the best it can with the temps that it has? I had to take 2 days of temps out of FF and could probably take 1 day either side of those out as well because I think they are suspect - oh well though, what can you do? And of course the OPKs didn't work this month either! Although I may have stopped them a day or two early - I was just too sick to care.

So I think that between me being so sick and the supposed low progesterone that I'm in with little to no chance this month - I just can't see how you could get pg when you are as sick as I was. But I can't say that I'm mega bummed about it considering that we almost didn't try at all, so at least I won't be disappointed when AF shows up this month! And I think I'll also stop temping for the rest of the month too - I'm really over it and can't be bothered when it's probably a waste of time for this month anyway. I think I'll just chill and start again fresh next month.

ETA - Bun you must have posted at the same time as me - that is fantastic news! I'm so happy for you - you must be so relieved!