TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 08 #2

[jen805]

Thanks Canary re: Progesterone! There are other dr's that I can choose from this time. I felt bad at first, but the more I talk about it, the more I think it's probably for the best. Thanks again, have a great weekend!

[ll80]

Jodson big Hugs!
Perhaps you could go to your gp and pee in a cup for them and see what happens, maybe ask for a BT just to make especially sure, and of course for your own sanity!!
Lost of Luck and HUGS!

..Laura

[Jodsan]

Thanks so much girls, you are all so wonderful. Well I found First Response and did it at lunch time and it was definately negative, no strange dots. So at least I know now. I dont need FMU with First Response do I? Should I do another in the morning just to be sure? Kinda dont want to do anymore, I'm sick of it

Have a further question too, what is cervix supposed to be like before AF? Mine feels kinda soft and open, it feels really similar to O time. I have never noticed this before AF before, is it normal 4 days out from AF. I have also had some snot-like CM (sorry TMI). Is this normal before AF? I have tried googling and cant find my answers.

[AJC]

Jodsan, . I have tried googling the same thing and from what I found the cervix can actually be a different positions at different times of the day so they recommend if you use CP to predict O or whatever to check at the same time of day.

I used first response last time I fell pg at 12 dpo in the middle of the afternoon and got BFP. Everyone's bodies are different though but I have had success not using first morn urine. Maybe wait until Tue or Wed to test again. It still could be too early - you never know. I won't say sorry about BFN yet because until af arrives.....

[Canary]

Hi Jodsan-
What a wirlwind of emotions you must be going through! I am so sorry that I have no answers, just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you with all fingers and all toes crossed- Good Luck!

[mmteacher]

Hello Jodsan..

Unfortunately, I am with the others here...No idea about cervix. Have you tried and OPK to see if you may be O'ing...Also, it can still be too early on the HPT so don't give up until she shows her ugly face! By the way, are your temps still up or have they changed at all?

Good luck and sending lots of Baby Dust your way!!!!!

[jen805]

mmteacher--Just realized your in Arizona, it's nice to know there's someone else in my time zone around here! I find myself waiting all day for everyone is Australia to wake up, since there's a 17 hour time difference! My DF's Nana lives in Phoenix. We visited her a couple years ago and went to Rawhide, it was so much fun! Have you been there?

[jen805]

Jodsan--When is AF due? (Stay away witch!) Maybe it's still a little too early to tell with a HPT. Can you ask your dr. for a BT? I wish that I could help you with the cervix question, but lol... I've tried to figure out how my cervix feels, and it always feels the same--so I don't even know if it's my cervix that I'm feeling! Open, closed, soft, hard, I can't tell the difference! All I do know is that I feel so anxious for you to find out--going to chew all my nails off! Good luck & baby dust galore coming your way!