TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 08

[Trac73]

Hello to Everyone

I want to congratulate JMG on her BFP, as well as 1180 Congrats i hope you have a healthy and happy pregnancy

Hello to everyone - i hope that you are all doing well, with lots of Bding, Twwing and taking care of yourselves.

AFM - I received my results today and they are a positive BFP. My doctor told me that it was more likley that we are a month pregnant rather than two. So unfortunately i will need to go through the dreaded 6 week mark which for the past two m/c has been. But on the other hand i am feeling rather positive about this one as i am already having nauesea, headaches, backache, twinging down there and extrememly tired. As for the twins we will not know until ultrasound, which i don't think it will be i just think it is my DH dream. I don't need to go back to the doctor for another 4 weeks which will be an agnoising time but i know i cna do it and all will be great. Well off now for my first parent teacher interview at my DD daycare centre .......I know she is 3 can you believe they have parent teacher interviews, where is this world going.

Take Care and Sending lots of

[plc1805]

Trac - honey that is so great about the convincing BFP - keep positive and u will get thru this we'll make sure of it!!

Magda - oh sweet i can't imagine how hard it would be if i were in ur shoes. my m/cs were a while ago now and with more time now to build up to my next pg () I'm sure when i get there il be struggling too to keep calm - i pray you keep strong...

Hope everyone is well!! Canary (and any other lovely heading towards the end of TWW) - sending you super dooper vibes!!

[Natty]

Hi Ladies

Well I guess I will join Brockstar in moving on as well. Not that I feel that I am ready but I want to do the right thing by all the beautiful ladies posting here who are TTC.

I just wanted to say thank you all for being such wonderful women - for providing me with inspiration, insight and courage and for making me realise that all my wierd and wonderful feelings are normal!

I hope to see all of you posting on the 1st trimester pregnancy discussion board very very soon announcing your . And for those of you who have a BFP already, I look forward to continuing our cyber friendship on the other boards.

Thank you all and wishing every one of you lots and lots of luck in TTC.

[nicksterUK]

Hi all- so glad to see so many new BFPs- issuing tonnes of sticky vibes adn baby dust for everyone (me included).
Has been a very stressful week so far- started bleeding suddenly on Monday lunchtime (heavy, bright red etc). Called DH and went straight to emergency dept and spent the rest of the day there. After numerous urine check/pulse/bp etc and 'chats' about the negative implications/hopeful implications (why can't they just get to the point 'is it dead or alive?') they looked for heartbeat. 2 people failed to find it and wanted to send me home to 'complete the m/c' but this fabulous nurse from gynae came down from the 6th floor and said she would do an ultrasound. It's normally only open between 10-12 so she and her Ward Sister opened it up especially.They clearly recognised that 'confirmation either way' was what was needed and hey presto- there was Junior, complete with heartbeat and waving. He (or she) was low down, but measuring 11 weeks 2days (11+ 4 today) and even did a somersault when they did the sonogram (obviously didn't like it). Think DH and I cried even more when seeing bubs than we did when we thought the worst. Anyway, there is one bub (not two but I don't mind) and he seems to be hanging in there...so far... The bleeding has slowed right down, but is still really red. Just hanging on to the fact that I'm not clotting, not got cramps and no backache. Am on bed rest (well sofa rest) for now so just waiting with baited breath... for the next 6 months maybe!!
Told you that I couldn't leave you yet- see, I still need you
Am keeping everything crossed- and will let you know how we go xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[JMG]

Thanks to AJC, jodsan, jen805, smilanatum plc1805, canary, magda, and mollycat for your congratulatory wishes.

plc1805 - Good on you for the good result at your follow up appointment for your heart monitoring. Here's hoping you keep getting those good results.

Canary - Here's hoping that AF stays away for you and you are on your way for a BFP.

Magda - I understand how you feel about the no symptons, it is not very reassuring, but I bet in a week or two you'll be wishing those symptoms would slow down. They must just be building up to something big!!

Trac73 - for having you BFP confirmed. Good luck for your journey.

Natty - Goodbye from this thread. Here's hoping we can meet again in the paml thread soon.

NicksterUK - Great news on your u/s. I bet your grateful for that nurse for coming down and giving you some peace of mind. the bleeding stops for you.

AFM I am sitting by and being patient until my doctors appointment next Monday to confirm the BFP. After everything is confirmed, I can move onto the paml thread and hopefully sit back and enjoy this prenancy.

[plc1805]

Oh nickster honey - what a HUGE scare!!! Come on baby nicki - don't scare ur mum and dad like that!!!!!!! He or she obviously thinks you are in need of some r'n'r and pulled a prank so that you are now forced to rest . Sweet look after urself and make sure that DH is fussing over u!!! You are in my prayers!!

Natty - it is so good that u r moving on but i am sad to see you go as a valued member in here. Looking forward to seeing you again in PAML thread one day!

[bettyboop]

exciting news AF arrived , has only been 176 days

[JMG]

BettyBoop - Wow congratulations on your AF. I know that is something we wouldn't normally go yay about, but .

[smilanatu]

bettyboop... I am simply thrilled for you!!! I hope all stays well for you and you get a BFP soon.

AFM: today is O day according to mymonthlycycles.com we have been BDing since Monday and will continue just in case...besides nothing wrong with BDing I have my fingers crossed we get it this cycle as my birthday was Saturday and this would be a wonderful belated gift!!!

[Baby Angels]

Oh nickster honey - what a HUGE scare!!! Come on baby nicki - don't scare ur mum and dad like that!!!!!!! He or she obviously thinks you are in need of some r'n'r and pulled a prank so that you are now forced to rest . Sweet look after urself and make sure that DH is fussing over u!!! You are in my prayers.

Birthday Buddy..... couldnt have said it better myself.....

Nickster..... We are all here for you.... I may not post as often now but I m still here... keeping an eye on everything.... popin in now and again.

Focus on you girl.... and you know I m going to say it...... ONE DAY AT A TIME!

Try your best to keep your spirits up and enjoy jnr.... tell him/her off for scarin you.... let jnr know they have some major lovin they will have to give mum and dad when they arrive to make up for the little scare.

The absolute most important thing.... YOU. I m damn sure DH wont mind giving the additional TLC.

And dont forget I m here.... TAKE CARE

[smilanatu]

Nickster...I'm keeping you in my thoughts! Take care of YOU!!!

[mollycat]

Betty - yay, now you can really settle in to TTC.
Nickster - wow, take it easy and rest up while you can. Glad you got to see your little one - he/she must be feeling ok to be doing somersaults and showing off for mum and dad
AJC - will be thinking of you this friday, try to do something nice just for you.
Smilanatu - hope you get your belated birthday gift, i want one of those too. I should be O'ing on my birthday next week so to both of us

[Anthonysmom]

Hi ladies - just dopping in to send some messages.
Nickster - What a scare. Glad your bub showed you s/he was okay with the somersaults.
Betty - I am so happy for you. Now your BFP is around the corner.

Barbara

[seenabeena]

Congratulations to all the ladies with BFP's ~ what a month

I am on CD45 and no sign of a period, a BFN 2 days ago and totally confused I just wish I would get my period or a bfp just so I know. This waiting SUCKS! Will wait another week before poas.

[maybe baby]

Sadly but still hopeful would like to join everyone here - I have just been told I have suffered a missed miscarriage (10.4 weeks). No signs, nothing. Am still in shock. Have a D&C tomorrow.

Can't believe this has happened

Sasha

[Baby Angels]

Soooo sorry for your loss. I know there is nothing that will take the pain away but hopefully by being here and allowing yourself to greive then hopefully it will help....even if its only in a small way.

There is one thing I will say.... and every lady in here has heard it from me before.... take care of you.... and just do it all ONE DAY AT A TIME. Dont expect to much from yourself, dont allow others to expect from you.... just you do for you....

I havent posted the poem off the web site for a while and I think with all the recent additions to our little group I will

A Pair of Shoes

I am wearing a pair of shoes.
They are ugly shoes.
Uncomfortable shoes.
I hate my shoes.
Each day I wear them, and each day I wish I had another pair.
Some days my shoes hurt so bad that I do not think I can take another step.
Yet, I continue to wear them.
I get funny looks wearing these shoes.
I can tell in others eyes that they are glad they are my shoes and not theirs.
They never talk about my shoes.
To learn how awful my shoes are might make them uncomfortable.
To truly understand these shoes you must walk in them.
But, once you put them on, you can never take them off.
I now realize that I am not the only one who wears these shoes.
There are many pairs in this world.
Some woman are like me and ache daily as they try and walk in them.
Some have learned how to walk in them so they don?t hurt quite as much.
Some have worn the shoes so long that days will go by before they think about how much they hurt.
No woman deserves to wear these shoes.
Yet, because of these shoes I am a stronger woman.
These shoes have given me the strength to face anything.
They have made me who I am.
I will forever walk in the shoes of a woman who has lost a child.


You will get stronger... you will be able to see without the haze above you.... Just do it at your own pace.... ONE DAY AT A TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HUGE HUGS