Hello to everyone,

sorry I haven't posted since my first and only but I have been a little busy planning my wedding- very exciting. Aside from that, I am still waiting fro this m/c to pass naturally. I have had mild cramping, spotting and bleeding for the last week but nothing that seems like it's really happening. I have to ring my Ob tomorrow and see if I should have a D&C. If it's going to pass naturally, I would prefer that, but it's already been a few weeks since we found out that it was a missed m/c and I don't want it to get to close to the wedding.

TwoMums- I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. There are just no words that really help in a situation like that. All I can say is that he can now look after you and your baby that will arrive. He is also with your little angels i know it's not the same thing, but my Nan passed away when i found out I was pregnant the first time and I believe she is with my two.

Satya- What can I say?! It's unfair that this happened to you again. I hope that you can stay positive and luck comes your way ASAP Have you seen the website for the miscarriage Association in the UK? There are some stories on there from women who have m/c a few times that I find quite inspiring.

Kiwigirl- I hope your bleeding stops soon. That's why I need to have a D&C ASAP if nothing happens NOW because I don't want to bleed for too long after as there are only 3 weeks till my wedding. How are you coping with the loss though? I hope it's getting a little easier each day. I had someone congratulate me only today. "when's the baby due?" she asked after the congratulations which I thought were for the wedding. Ooops. She was a little embarassed but it's not her fault. We told so many people but obviously missed a few. I'm coping Ok now, I just want it out so I can focus on the wedding properly.

LizJessie- Have you set a wedding date yet?

Hi to everyone else and super good luck to everyone on their 2WW

Ems