Smilinatu - when I was pg I had awful pains and the doc told me that it was implantation as I never get AF pain. Perhaps this is happening for you too??

Hopingsoon - I totally understand about MIL's being mega cows, my one is the same! Some people are so self-obsessed that they don't think before they talk and don't even consider how much they may be hurting your feelings when they tell you about a pregnancy soon after you m/c. My best friend was really hesitant but had to tell me, I would have been upset if she didn't. However Xmas day when AF arrived I had a mini breakdown, could not handle the fact. That and of course the sight of the blood brought back what had happened a month earlier. It was my sister that really took the cake for nasty comments. When I told her why I was upset her reply was "You get your period every month so you better get used to it!" *****!! She's younger, fell in the first month she tried and is so self absorbed that she doesn't think anything is bad unless it is happening to her. If it has happened to her she just thinks that if she got through it everyone else should just shut up and put up (even if she was the worlds biggest whinger / sook / whatever when it was happening!) Geez that vent felt good!!!!

Hopingsoon - I read somewhere that the next couple of months after m/c the OPK's and BBT methods, as well as the Billings Method, basically don't work as your hormones can be a tad screwed up. For me this was very true, I had o cm 3 times in the first and secomd months after m/c!

Canary - I am also entering my TWW, I was O on Monday, or so the OPK tells me! I'm not sure if I should test a couple of days earlier or if I should wait to see if AF appears or not. I am really regular, O'd on day 14, so who knows what I should do????