Magda - it's amazing how the people who are supposed to look out for you can be the one who hurts you. My mother often can't wait to tell me who in our family is pg, most of the time it's cousins kids (like I know these people, I could walk past them in the street - and probably do). My MIL came out with a good one the other day, she was talking about someone she knew who had a 22yo, 16yo and 5yo and carrying on about the 11 years between children. I quietly said to her "our's would have been 11 years apart. to which she replied " yes, but you didn't plan it". Well, I would have thought the years of seeing Dr's and taking clomid, operations, check ups, would have been "planning it", but there you go. I just let her go and told DH later. Proves they're self centred. Anyway, we're still TTC but won't be letting anyone know if it works until we can't hide it anymore. We don't need all the negative comments.

I'm into "self preservation" mode at the moment with the client that announced her pg 2 weeks ago, I am polite, will dicuss her current baby with her, but totally ignore any comments about her pg, I hope at some stage i can get past this, i don't want to ruin our relationship but feel this is how i can get thru at the moment.