Thanks Satya and Kbowman, i really appreciate the thoughts and all those precious hugs.
I have just done a pregnancy test to make sure that i dont have any pregnancy stuff left in me and its negative, and although sad to look at, it also makes me happy because it means that if i happen to do one in 3 weeks time and its positive, then it will because i will be pregnant and i wont get excited for nothing.
So now my plan.....i just told my poor DH what my plan was and his reply was "what is the meaning of this maddness ????" And im sure this is going to sound totally crazy but then again....im feeling pretty crazy these days.
But anyway......we are going to BD every second day for the next 3 weeks or until AF comes. Why ?? because i know nothing much at all about MY cycle and cervical mucus?? and tempretures??? im totally in the dark. Right now i feel WET but its not sticky or anything?? so if anyone can help tell me what that means then i would be gratefull.
All i know is that i could ovulate anytime a week after the m/c and so im hoping that by BDing every second day then i should have a great chance of there being enough swimmers up there to catch the egg when it decides to come out.
So thats the plan....please tell me if im an absolute nut case....my DH would love for you to tell me that....but im praying that it will work.

Im going to try to be brave tomorrow and not cry..but who am i kidding...ill cry.


hugs hugs hugs to all you wonderful ladies that have kept my sanity in the past week, you are all truly special people and i thank you from the bottom of my heart.

treelo