Hi everyone,

For the benefit of the new ladies to the forum I've had two m/c 10 years apart and have no kids of my own but a lovely 4yo step daughter who we share custody of (not as evenly as we would like) and we have her right now. I have major worries about ever conceiving again as my track record is not good - only 2 short lived pregnancies in 10 years of unprotected sex with two different partners. It took 3 years for the first pregnacy to occur (and never did it happen again in another 5.5 years with him) and 9 months for the second one (m/c in March this year). Due to that and my age (41) it looks like I'm heading to IVF after my lap. Pretty scary to be heading down that track but I don't have time to waste at my age.... I did enough of the wait and see what happens in my 30's and here I am still trying after I started ttc at 28.

Shoegal - good luck holding out til Sun - you can do it!!!!

Zionsmum - It's so tough dealing with pregnancy news. I always cry at pregnancy announcements. I did go through a few years where I somehow got used to getting the news and could handle it well, but since the recent m/c I just don't handle it well at all.

Treelo - Have fun cleaning the house. Are you selling or is it the dreaded landlord coming through?

Nice to see you again Kiwigirl

britkane8 - Just in case you are still lurking - I'm sorry to hear about your split. You need to remember that a break up is very rarely the fault of one person so please stop being so hard on yourself.

Welcome back Leyla - I hope the rest of your tww flies by quickly.

Hi to LizJessie, sienna, sweetpetite, Kbowman and anyone else I have missed.



I had O type pain last night & my temp is up to my usual post O temp so I am hoping that I have O'd. We will have to try to keep the bding up though cos last time I thought I had but didn't until CD16 but I didn't have any O pain last cycle at all.

Hope everyone has a great weekend.