danielsgirl--So sorry to hear about your terrible day! I think what your Grandma said was horribly insensitive! It never ceases to amaze me that it's the ones that supposedly love us the most, are the ones that hurt us the most. I've also been told to just "get over it" and "I should be grateful for what I have". People like that just don't understand--and unless it's a person's been through something like that, they just can't understand what it's like. But they should just keep their mouths shut, and keep their opinions to themselves. Thumper's mom once said, "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all"! Danielsgirl, our losses are only a day apart, so I truly feel like I'm right where you are! You're not alone, and very much in my prayers! Hope your day is better today!
JMG--Thanks for sharing your story. You're right, everyone here is so supportive! It's very comforting to have other women to talk and vent to! Women who actually care and understand exactly what your talking about. Welcome to BB! Hope your stay here is short. Good luck TTC!