TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ NOV/DEC 07

**cheekyfrog** · December 4th, 2007, 04:39 PM

Sorry to read your news, Lee

Big hugs and crossing fingers for a sticky emby for you in the near future. And Cruemum, gosh, I couldn't begin to imagine what you're going through but sending you big squishy cyber hugs too.

**bettyboop** · December 3rd, 2007, 04:40 AM

Hi all , i have been away all weekend ,i will have to catch up what is happening. Hope you are all good.
Me AF has still not arrived, my temp took another big dip today , fingers crossed.

**Lee** · December 3rd, 2007, 09:18 AM

Hi ladies,

Thanks for your well wishes - however, sadly this bub did not stick. I started bleeding heavily over the weekend - was 5 weeks - so pretty early. Onwards and upwards I guess, despite feeling pretty devastated (again). I'll be taking a break for a little while........ but knowing me, it won't be for long.

Good luck to all of you ttc!

Lee xo

mumstar · December 3rd, 2007, 01:36 PM

Lee, I am very sorry for your loss. Please look after yourself, remember we are all here to talk or listen.

**Beaksie** · December 3rd, 2007, 01:56 PM

To Lee and Cruemum. Im so sorry.

**treelo** · December 3rd, 2007, 04:40 PM

Cruemum, im so sorry hun, we dont need to know and we will not ask any questions, but please know that we are all here for you.

Lee - im so sorry for your loss sweety. Your sound like a very strong person

Hi everyone...i just wanted to pop my head in and see how you were all going, so many bfp's this month !! wonderful to see. Im still having a break for a little while, but will continue to pop my head in from time to time to see how you all are.

hugs
treelo

**littlescottishboy** · December 3rd, 2007, 07:28 PM

Oh my gosh Lee and Cruemum - sending you both all the love in the world and huge hugs. So sorry.

**AnnaBelle** · December 3rd, 2007, 08:39 PM

Oh Lee

that's so disappointing
My thoughts are with you.

AnnaBelle

Good luck bettyboop I hope AF stays away for you my dear.
I so hope AF stays away for us both - I am feeling a bit crappy & moody
so we shall see!!

Bye for now Anna

**nicjay** · December 4th, 2007, 06:45 AM

I'm so very sorry Lee and cruemum

**baby hopes** · December 4th, 2007, 07:20 AM

so sorry lee and cruemum sending you both a bit hug

any news on starrysky ??

**missbelinda77** · December 4th, 2007, 08:18 AM

Lee & Cruemum - Sorry to read of your loss. Hope you are both well and taking care of yourselves. *hugs*

Hello to everyone else - hope you get your BFP's for Christmas! xxx

**ElleJay** · December 4th, 2007, 01:13 PM

Lee and Cruemum - I'm so very very sorry.. Your both in my thoughts and prayers

**bettyboop** · December 4th, 2007, 06:49 PM

i got my BT results today hcg has down to 7 , but where is AF.

**AnnaBelle** · December 4th, 2007, 09:48 PM

Hello girls,

AF Arrived this morning!
This is the first time I have really been down about it - hopefully this
mood shall lift. Went to the shops tonight to buy tampons & found a
whole heap marked down to a ridiculously cheap price - maybe they are
no longer making them I dont know but they were $2 a box anyway I
bought heaps of them! I thought to myself later - hopefully I wont have
to use them all for a while to come !!!

Anyway here we go again unfortunately.

NIght night
AnnaBelle

**cheekyfrog** · December 4th, 2007, 10:17 PM

Bettyboop, I was waiting for 8 weeks and 2 days before AF returned after my m/c seven months ago. I hope AF shows up for you soon.

Annabelle, sounds like a great bargain but I'm with you on hoping that you don't get to use 'em all.

Thanks Pash, I'm just lurking. Probably I don't really belong here at the moment either. I'm not exactly actively TTC at the moment. Hey, great that you get to come home for Christmas! I'm heading to Brisbane and then to Hong Kong to catch up with my family over the Christmas break. Can't wait!

**pash** · December 4th, 2007, 10:05 PM

Lee, I'm so sorry. What an awful year you've had. Big :hugs: to you. You're such a strong lass and I've so much admiration for you. If you need someone to chat to, I'm here for you.

Cruemum, How devastating :hugs: I'm so sorry. I wish I could ease your pain.

Bettyboop, just wondering, what did your doc tell you was a "normal" HCG? My doc said about 4.

Hey Treelo & KBowman, how are thing's with you?

Hiya everyone else.

I haven't been posting for a while cos I've been waiting for about 6months for my HCG to drop to normal. Last week it was 5, and when it gets to 4, I have to wait 6 more months before ttc again. So I really shouldn't be in here, but have been lurking.

My good news is that I get to go home for Christmas and see my family again. Yay!

Good luck to everyone with the TTC.

**jaike and jaides mummy** · December 4th, 2007, 11:31 PM

i hope you dont mind me butting in,
but i think im in the right place now, lol,
im on fertility meds to get pg after 2 still borns last year,
ive just had all the tests to see if there are any probs, you know like washing out my tubes, (wow too much info, sorry)
but ive been trying since january and every month is like a knife, when the test says negative,
im due to start trying again next tuesday and do my test on new years eve,
im hoping the new year will be the start of some much needed good luck
mandxx

**STARRYSKY** · December 5th, 2007, 10:01 AM

hi guys!

welcome to j&js mummy, big hugs for your angels sweetie, I am sure we all understand the pain of those neg tests.

lee and cruemum- I am so sorry for you girls, life can be so unfair at times. I am thinking of you both.

thanks for all your well wishes but af did arrive (and with a vengence!!) but on a good note this cycle was back to my *normal* 28 days, lets just hope it stays that way!!
I have started temping this cycle too, so we will see how that goes.
start my new job on monday, I am getting nervous now!!
good luck to everyone this month.
xxxx