I've had that "feel like a freak thing" plenty of times as well. Apparently MC is supposed to happen about 1 in 4. Good and well. But when I started to think about it Ive got my sis, 2 sil, 4 good friends (which is 7) that have all had kids in the past few years and NONE of them have had even I mc. I on the other hand have had 3, so statistically Ive had everyone's share. Not that I want any of them to go through it, but i do have those why me, its so unfair etc type of days. And you just dont get it unless its happened to you. Anyway enough of this talk, we need to try to focus on the positives, and keep each other boosted when we're feeling all whoa is me.