Two week wait support #4

**blizz** · March 5th, 2008, 06:12 PM

just calling in to spread a few more

and some

to all of you in the TWW

talking myslef into it · March 7th, 2008, 12:15 PM

Hey Girls

I could really use some help. bit of back ground on me, was first pregnant with in 6 weeks of my sister and best friend, I misscarried at 11 weeks and they both have heatlhy happy baby's.

now after losing my 2nd at 6 weeks i can't stop talking myslef into feeling pregnant

how do you stop thinking about it, and am i feeling REAL symptoms or just making a mountian out of a mole hill.

AF is due tommorrow and i can't stop thinking about it, i had a major epesiode of deppression after my first M/C and really hate this waiting, i really feel it but im scared about phamtom pregnancys

ps this is my first post so hope its all good

**babyjo** · March 7th, 2008, 01:32 PM

Hi all
This is my first time on the TWW area. My fingers are crossed for us all and hope to see some BFP in the next few weeks.

I am not sure if I am 3 or 1 dpo. I had an u/s on Tues , which was CD12, as I have been taking clomid this month. Healthy 3 eggs on right side waiting for Mr Right, but do I count this as my o day?
I was also told that my HSG scan shows both my tubes blocked at ends (sorry if TMI) and no endometrium lining, so not sure if I can achieve a BFP this month.
We Bd'd anyway. I am feeling positive about it all.

I had a BFP in Setp 07, m/c Dec 07 so can't believe the scan is right.
But I have got to say, I really dislike this TWW, I wish I could test now and just move on.

GL to all of us this month, heres hoping for some real good news real soon.

**berecca623** · March 8th, 2008, 05:29 AM

Talking myself into it - I know just what you mean, I did that to myself last month too! Was positive I was pg but turned out BFN. That has helped this month and I am not going to think anything until after AF would be due!

Babyjo - Welcome and very sorry about your loss. Can't help you with your queries as I have no idea!

As for me, if someone could answer this question cheers, I am confused.
My chart shows I am 4 dpo and today my temp dropped .1 which means it is below the coverline. If anyone wants to check out my chart and tell me what they think that would be cool! Cheers

**pbstar** · March 8th, 2008, 05:40 AM

welcome to the TWW girls

talking myself into it- yes i too suffer from talking myself into thinking i'm pregnant- i just keep swinging between being convinced i am to convinced i'm not...i guess it is something we all struggle with so it helps me to come on here to chat with like minded people

babyjo- i'm not too sure about when you o'd either- you say you have been BDing so fingers crossed it will be your month

hey berecca- i had the same thing happen to me 5DPO, my temp went below coverline and then it's gone back up again since (i'm now 9DPO)...tempus told me she thought it might be related to a progesterone issue but i think maybe it was because it was a cold night and we had a window open in the bedroom...

well ladies i think i will probably give in and start testing pretty soon, i know it's early but i love to POAS! will keep you posted on results...

**tempus moriendi** · March 8th, 2008, 08:35 AM

babyjo and talking: I'm so sorry for your losses. Best of luck for both of you and keeping you in my prayers.

**babyjo** · March 9th, 2008, 07:26 PM

Hey all, just touching base to see if everyone is doing okay.
any BFP's from anyone yet???

I am finding this TWW agonising. I just want to test every day even though I know it is way way way too early... ugh.

Like we all do, some days I talk myself into it and other days I talk myself out of it. Today is a good day, I feel that there should be a

. Lets hope this is a good vibe.

to us all.

**bettyboop** · March 9th, 2008, 07:44 PM

how is everyone one going on the tww , i am right in the middle of it

**berecca623** · March 9th, 2008, 09:15 PM

Hye Ladies, I am 5 DPO and feeling calm about it all at the mo. Other than coming on here and reading the posts, and charting my temps, too busy to really spend much time thinking about it. AF is due not this Monday but next so still got a way to go yet!

Good luck to all and lots of

**Baby Angels** · March 10th, 2008, 10:20 PM

Well here I am again....... dont mind me.... I ll take up my seat in the corner that I had last time......

Good Luck and baby dust to all

**pbstar** · March 11th, 2008, 05:19 AM

i'm out girls, it's a BFN for me this morning...

trying to not get too down about it but feeling pretty disapointed.

GL to everyone else, hope you are all well.

**berecca623** · March 11th, 2008, 11:08 AM

pbstar - as has been said to me many a time, its not over til that witch AF shows up! Sorry about the BFN but is it still before AF is due? Could it be too early to test yet??

Well half way there now and trying not to think about it too much or get my hopes up! Last two days had quite a bit of watery cm (sorry TMI I know) and a little confused as normally don't get much at all! Of course because its watery it has been highlighted green on fertility friend. Why is this all so confusing??

**babyjo** · March 11th, 2008, 11:14 AM

pbstar - hey, don't give up all hope yet, sometimes the tests are wrong. I agree with Berecca, it aint over yet. Keep the positive vibes going. I will

for you.

berecca - I am with you on this one. Half way to and it is just driving me crazy.

I have had the same cm (sorry for tmi

) and have not had this before, so I am hoping it is a good sign?

can anyone shed any light on this? When are you going to do a test. I have heard that some tests will show 7 days before AF. does anyone think they are reliable?
Come on girls, we can get through this, and hopefully for the last time.

**berecca623** · March 11th, 2008, 01:51 PM

Babyjo- There are tests out there that test around 5-7 days before AF due but you gotta think that the BFN you get from them aren't always that reliable. The BFP is of course

When you are that early you won't have massive amounts of HCG and therefore easy to get a wrong BFN, my thoughts anyway!

I have decided to stick to my testing the day before AF is due. I rather this heads up instead of visible signs as I find that more distressing. That means Sunday morning is POAS morning for me

for a BFP

I am also hoping that the cm is a good sign!

On the downward trek now towards POAS and this is always the hardest time for me. Have decided to only come on here twice a day and concentrate on Uni / work / DH more!!! So far is working OK, or am I just kidding myself, probably

Good luck to all ladies POAS in the next couple of days.

Lots of

for all!

**bettyboop** · March 11th, 2008, 06:40 PM

what a slow tww i am 8dpo

**tempus moriendi** · March 12th, 2008, 12:18 AM

Just dropped in to wish everybody good luck!

berecca623: you can get CM close to when you're due for AF. You can also have mucus during pregnancy, but most people don't check for it.

**pbstar** · March 12th, 2008, 06:31 AM

hi ladies

just dropped in to let you know i am definitely out, AF came last night

there were a few tears but i think they were necessary, i was carrying a lot of built up emotion around, about the miscarriage and about needing to be pregnant for all these reasons and it was so good to release it all...

so this time AF is here for a big emotional and physical clean out and thats not a bad thing

wishing all of you the best of luck, hope this TWW is not too painful and really hope one of you has some good news soon

here's some

for good measure