Hi Jen, its so frustrating when you think you have done it all right, only to be told that its all changed and not as you thought. Im a little in that boat right now. My chart told me I ovulated on a certain day, but i had the ewcm 3 days before. I bd when i had the wecm but not when O day was estimated. I tend to trust my body a little more than a computer generated chart, so im hoping that i got it right, but only time will tell.
I wish i had some answers for you but this ttc is such a game of wait and see, that you cant really be sure until AF arrives or doesnt arrive. Two cycles ago i have spotting around O time, very light pink and only when i wiped. It is possible to spot around O, and can also be a sign of stress. Best of luck, and im hoping that you have a BFP this month.

smilanatu, I have to admit, im getting alittle excited about your signs. I cant wait for you to test, i have a good feeling about you, i think this could be your time !!!!!

hugs
treelo