been there sweetie, but look at my ticker

after the s/b of my daughter I was adament no more babies I can't do this I told my husband, but eventually the desire for a baby in my arms outweighed those feelings I went on to have 2 more m/c before having Jack, I spent the first 24 weeks scared and sick felt great for 3 whole weeks then was diagnosed with a heart condition, and then went into my first of 3 yes 3 threatened preterm labour bouts, 28 weeks 29 weeks and 34 weeks

things do go wrong m/c happen babies are born too early we have no control over these

you will again have the courage to go on and TTC I next time you have a healthy happy 9 months