Tilda, Berry1, Teagz & Beata thank you so much for your wonderful words of support regarding my mum's comments. I haven't heard anything back from her since I sent the e-mail telling her to essentially back off and try being supportive and understanding. I guess I'll wait to see what her next move will be. I expect she will try to phone on the weekend but as we are leaving first thing tomorrow morning for our escape down south I only have to get through today!

Yesterday was very exhausting day for us both, physically and emotionally. I started the morning with an AP session but I found it dificult to relax as I was concerned about my GP appointment later that morning. As it turned out, my GP has scheduled me for a D&C next Wednesday which I am defininitely not looking forward to but she and the ob/gyn that she has referred me to has convinced me that it is probably the best thing to do. So now I am on 2 lots of anti-biotics, still off the alcohol because of them, and waiting for Wednesday. We were very impressed with the new ob/gyn our GP referred us to (the last one we sacked before the induction - a very long story - and used the public system) as she actually listened to us and treated us individuals and answered all of our questions, even though we kept asking the same types of things over and over, she was very patient, understanding and seemed genuinely sorry for our loss. Very refreshing! Oh and she said we should start trying as soon as possible after my first period - the whole dating thing again and that we should use BC before that - but I don't care because the chances of us falling pg first time around are probably less than us winning lotto, and we don't even buy tickets!

We also spent 90mins with a psych which was emotionally very draining, and I think beneficial for me. DH didn't really connnect with her so I am not sure what we can do to help him - he's not into support groups.

Anyway, that's my update. I hope everyone has a relaxing Easter and maybe the Easter bunny will bring some extra special for everyone!

Hugs to all
xx