Yay Helen, congrats on the scan and your superlong cervix!!

Laney... where are you. Are you ok. I am starting to worry about you. Please let us know you're ok!

Diana: 15 days PG wooooohoooooooooo. I am busy trying to work out the whole CM thing. Not very good at it. Always in too much of a rush when I go to the loo!! I am either ovulating today/tomorrow or in about a weeks time.

DH and I are deciding whether to BD tonight (CD9). I did the ttc for a girl thing with Charlie and it worked and we are deciding whether to do that again this time round. Of course we don't care if we get a girl or boy as long as its healthy. I truly mean that, but is it completely uncaring of me to say it would be nice to have a girl so we have one of each. I feel morally challenged by this dilema. I know last time we decided to 'try for a girl' for one cycle and if we didn't get a BFP then next cycle we would just go hell for leather. I was thinking of approaching it the same way this time round but feel a bit guilty for doing anything that suggests we would not love to have a little boy as much as we would love a little girl which of course is not the case.

I'm seeking input from you guys... am i being a complete cow or what!!