thread: Trying to Conceive after Still Birth/ Late Loss/Recurrant Miscarriage ~ December 2008

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  1. #1
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    Sep 2008
    Bunbury, Western Australia
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    Thanks for all your info girls
    I'm having an internal battle with myself at the moment. I want my body to be properly "healed" before we try again, but then I think -well it had been three weeks before we even started having sex again after the D&C so surely that's long enough, and then my want for a baby overrides the lot and I'm back to point dot

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    Dec 2007
    melbourne
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    BB your killing me here! or its my computer...
    hey girls!
    have been trying to post and write etc etc and having some issues!!! I can't believe how many postthere are to catch up on and now my poor Ds is standing (impatiently) waiting for me to get off here now so it looks like i'll have to re-read and catch up on personals later! sorry!!!!!
    have'nt been on because i ended up working the whole weekend and its safe to say that i am not functioning properly now because i am so tired! no news on TTC for us yet but i will be ringing my psychic today to make an appoint ment. i hope she has'nt gone away these hols as i really want to see her!i also after work put together our new study furniture which has left a giant blister on my palm so i don't think that helped the tiredness issue. poor Dh was up for it but i could'nt be bothered by the time i got to bed! lol!
    be back later -he has now climbed onto my chair...hint hint...
    xx jo

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    Sep 2008
    Sydney
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    Teagz, It's out of your hands now so try not to worry to much until you know what the outcome is. If you caught your little egg then hopefully all will go fabulously, and if you don't, at least you will get a proper AF then there is nothing stopping you!

    Oh Teagz, how funny, there are 2 cars in my complex - one is BFP and one is BFN - NO JOKE! I never turn my head where that car is parked but I walk past the BFP one and always give it a little good luck rub

    Hi Jo, it's not you, BB has been down all arvo. Hope you get to see your psychic soon and join the many TTC-ers in here lately! Big hug to your blister so it heals soon and try to get a good nights sleep.

    Off home now, will try check in a little later.

    Lots of love
    Diana
    Last edited by dd0207; January 12th, 2009 at 03:07 PM.

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    Thanks Diana! I gotta relax a bit, I know.
    Spinny about the cars!!

  5. #5
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    May 2008
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    Hi lovelies

    I am trying to not be so obsessed (but doesn't help when BB goes off the planet!) with what is happening on BB lately so please excuse me for not being 'around' much! I felt like I was really starting to neglect other things in my life because I just wanted to be here all the time, that says something for all you girls! The down side to not keeping in regular contact is now I have soooo much to catch up on, man you girls have been busy.

    Forgive me in advance if I forget someone it really isn't intentional! Firstly I would like to say thank you to everyone for not kicking us out because we are not TTC anymore, I remember vividly telling Katie not to leave us!

    Jo76 - It is so good to have you back on here, we were worried about you! I too have just got a new bookcase/cubboard we have just put together for Corey's room, and I have sanded and painted one of my old bedside tables for him, it really looks like such a cool little boys room now!
    Teagz - I agree with what Tildy said, there really is no 'time frame'. Good Luck and I hope we are hearing that BFP very soon. I hope today isn't too bad for you.
    Diana - That bleeding sounds a bit odd, I'm glad you are seeing your DR, it will be interesting to see what they say. IVF it's such a hard decision isn't it? My cousin has a DD (3yr in April), it took them a while to fall with her but they just put it down to DH being away with the Navy. Fast forward to trying again, and it's taking ages again, she is only 28 and technically has 'nothing' wrong with either of them, they made the decision to do IVF and she had the same dilema, but in the end she just said 'you know what, I want this baby and I will do anything to get me there faster than this, the technology is there so I am going to use it!' It's unfair but age is a factor for you, I'd say go for it!
    Jo - How scary can bowel pain be? I had some when I was admitted with Cooper and now when ever I get it, it freaks me out. YAY for 25wks!! Will they give you any steroid shots? You are a star! Good luck on Friday.
    Paula - Good luck with your exams, I thought you were finished? I'm with the other girls on 'O' yesterday. You just like to trick us.
    Sue - Is your ticker new? I don't remember seeing it before, it is flying!
    Rozzie - I hope you are feeling much better now.
    Beata - Glad you had a great holiday, it sucks when they are over.
    Theresa - I hope you are feeling a little better with a new year started, and if I haven't congratulated you already I will again! Hopefully you'll get that BFP soon too.
    Hi to Hammi, Katie & Anna, Dee, Tildy & Berry.
    I feel like I have the decorating bug, since getting Corey's new cupboard, I have sanded and painted a bedside table, his table and chairs, a terracotta vase (that used to be a lamp until I got sick of it), another lamp and our ugly dining chair pads! Before you all say 'take it easy!' It really wasn't hard work anyway, the sander did all the work and I painted in a really open place with the fan blasting any fumes away. It probably sounds silly but I felt like I was losing my identity a bit and it feels good to do something I find rewarding. Problem is I've found a new obssession and still am neglecting things I shouldn't, like the housework!

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    May 2008
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    Theresa - I'm sorry if I missed it, but did AF come???
    I wonder what happened to my ticker? I hate it when things like that happen, not the best omen!

  7. #7
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    Aug 2008
    Canungra, Gold Coast
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    Just quickly - AF has still not come! I am going to hold out for 2 more days before I POAS. I don't want to get my hopes up too much as I am still getting the odd cramps..... I can only hope!
    I will be back later for persies - have to go make dinner as DF is hungry!