thread: Trying to Conceive after Still Birth/ Late Loss/Recurrant Miscarriage ~ December 2008

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  1. #1
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    Ohhhh Theresa, you may be being very patient etc, but my hopes are sky high! I wouldn't be able to help myself!

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    Sep 2008
    Sydney
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    Hi girls

    Helen, I like the way your friend thinks. Yes, unfortunately I don't have the luxury of youth on my side (not that I am way beyond fertile years) but sometimes we just have to give fate a helping hand - she is a very busy woman helping all of us along!
    The decorating sounds like fun but hard work, be sure to take care and use friendly chemicals!

    I completely understand the obsession with this site. DH says my face lights up when I'm on here chatting to you all.... and then he says "why don't you smile like that with me?". Oh how do you make them understand the bond we share?

    Theresa, oooooo I am really excited for you. I am sending tons and tons of "positive" vibes your way

    Lan, how did your sausage rolls turn out yesterday?

    Paula, be sure to get an extra BD in tonight!!

    I'm on CD21 today and just started noticing CM tonight. Hmmm bit late ha? Looks like Paula, Lan, Megan, Teagz and I will all be testing in the same week!

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    Dec 2007
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    Crap, I just saw your post about your bleed, Diana. Big like AF? Tell us how you go at the clinic tomorrow. You do O late. Does your CM appear right on O or before. I usually start CM on CD10 or 11 then O around CD14 or 15. We do appear to all be on the same timeframe. I hope Theresa kicks us all off with a BFP at the end of this week.

    Helen! You're back! I missed you! Don't worry about your ticker. It's just the host site going offline. Bub is fine - kicking much? You always exert yourself. I remember you were gardening when you were just pregnant, now you're redecorating. How about something gentle like reading? Hehe, Do you sand with a power tool? I can barely stick a hook on the wall straight so I'm very impressed with you.

    Theresa, you are very patient. I'd be peeing by now. Haha. Does DF know what a touch and go time this is or is he pretending to be all cool about it? I demand for a BFP announcement by Friday!

    Good to see you back Beata. Is AF still being painful today? Is Beata your name? I think I know everyone's names but yours.

    Jo76, you're back also. So pleased to hear from you. I can't wait to hear about your psychic reading. I've been talking to a girl from work about going to one but I'm not sure what I want from it. Also there's so many types - tarot cards, tea leaves, star charts etc. You sound handy too. When we moved we bought heaps of furniture and DH assembled it all by himself but having a drill thing that screws everything in was very handy.

    I painted two pictures for my Hamish in the last week. I bought three canvasses before we lost him to decorate his room. I pulled them out on new year and decided to paint them and decorate his room anyway. I painted one with him sleeping on a cloud, one with David and I smiling to Ham in the sky with his angel wings. The third one I just painted the background colour and will add an image for our earth baby when s/he comes into our lives.

    Oh Diana, my sausage rolls were tasty but the pastry is really oily/buttery. I felt a bit sick afterwards but now I know how to make sausage rolls :-)

    Goodnight my dears.

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    Dec 2007
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    Crap, I just saw your post about your bleed, Diana. Big like AF? Tell us how you go at the clinic tomorrow. You do O late. Does your CM appear right on O or before. I usually start CM on CD10 or 11 then O around CD14 or 15. We do appear to all be on the same timeframe. I hope Theresa kicks us all off with a BFP at the end of this week.

    Helen! You're back! I missed you! Don't worry about your ticker. It's just the host site going offline. Bub is fine - kicking much? You always exert yourself. I remember you were gardening when you were just pregnant, now you're redecorating. How about something gentle like reading? Hehe, Do you sand with a power tool? I can barely stick a hook on the wall straight so I'm very impressed with you.

    Theresa, you are very patient. I'd be peeing by now. Haha. Does DF know what a touch and go time this is or is he pretending to be all cool about it? I demand for a BFP announcement by Friday!

    Good to see you back Beata. Is AF still being painful today? Is Beata your name? I think I know everyone's names but yours.

    Jo76, you're back also. So pleased to hear from you. I can't wait to hear about your psychic reading. I've been talking to a girl from work about going to one but I'm not sure what I want from it. Also there's so many types - tarot cards, tea leaves, star charts etc. You sound handy too. When we moved we bought heaps of furniture and DH assembled it all by himself but having a drill thing that screws everything in was very handy.

    I painted two pictures for my Hamish in the last week. I bought three canvasses before we lost him to decorate his room. I pulled them out on new year and decided to paint them and decorate his room anyway. I painted one with him sleeping on a cloud, one with David and I smiling to Ham in the sky with his angel wings. The third one I just painted the background colour and will add an image for our earth baby when s/he comes into our lives.

    Oh Diana, my sausage rolls were tasty but the pastry is really oily/buttery. I felt a bit sick afterwards but now I know how to make sausage rolls :-)

    Goodnight my dears.

  5. #5
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    Sep 2008
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    Hello Girls,

    Theresa I am so excited for you, stay away AF and bring on a BFP

    Helen, good to hear from you. I am sure it is really rewarding preparing Corey's room, sounds lovely!

    Teagz, I hope your first day at work was ok, take it easy this week won't you, a big shock to the system after 5-weeks, not to mention what you have been through. BTW, what the heck were you doing chopping down a tree! You should be taking it easy women, I'm all for exercise but after what you've been through!! Seeing that licence plate cracked me up, hopefully it's a sign - Oh, almost forgot, I was told to wait at least one cycle as well, only for dating reasons though. If you do get a BFP they will always date on an u/s, so win/win either way.

    Diana, give that little BFP car a good rub honey, your turn next. Can you imagine going to the RTA and been given a plate with BFN, you'd be like sorry I can't take these plates like some kind of weirdo - LOL.

    Hi Jo, good to hear from you, hope that bowel pain has gone, I'm sure it is really scary while pregga's, but hospital food will do that to you. Congrat's on 25-wks you must be getting nice and big now, give your belly a nice rub.

    Paula, I would have thought O was Sun as well. I think I O'ed on Sunday as well so we'll be testing at around the same time. When do you POAS, is it when AF is due or when it's a couple of days late? I hope we both get a BFP together I hope your exam went well.

    I am now in the TWW, so fingers crossed. I know I would be pretty lucky if it happened in the first month, so I'll TRY and be patient. Is really hard to be patient this time round after everything that's happened.

    Hi to Lan, Laney, Jo76, Dee, Beata, Tildy, Cindee, TM (thinking of you, hope your ok). Sorry to anyone I have missed.

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    Zachary's Mom - I have butterflies in my belly for you! I really hope you get your BFP!!

    Berry - I didn't techincally chop the tree.. I just helped load up all the branches into the back of the ute ><; It wasn't to bad! Towards the end I became supervisor :P
    And I did survive my first day of work, Thankfully everyone was in and out all day so I was able to sit on my own and get my head around everything again.

    hgirs - Yep I think you and Tildy are right on the money.. I like your way ofthinking anyway

    Sorry for the short posts girlies but I'm off to clean up my messy kitchen

    xx

  7. #7
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    Nov 2007
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    firstly thanks for all the good wishes for my first day back at work girls.Have started a new job and it was fantastic really enjoyed the day and all my co workers know what has happened and were very supportive the joys of living in a small town everyone knows everything about each other.Teagz good to hear your first day was great also was thinking of you.

    zachary's mum- I hope you get a bfp and start the year off with a positive for all of us girls.

    also girls i just wanted to say how much i feel part of the group and a big THANK-YOU for being so warming to me it really does help to talk to people who have also experienced the same emotions.
    well i best be off to bed have to get the body clock working again no more late night chatting to the rest of you girls hope you have all had a fantastic day.

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    Girls,
    I just spent 20 minutes writing personals, and I lost it all...I wanna cry. Please, want let you know I'm sending you all massive hugs and I'll try again tomorrow, big headache after first day at work...

    Love to all my beautiful friends xxxxx

    Beata

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    Oct 2007
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    hi girls just thought id check in. went for another ultrasound today. my little jumping jellybean wouldnt stay still for the doctor so i couldnt get any decent pics. anyway looks like things may be going better this time. ive still gotta make it past 27 weeks but DH recons things are great.
    hope things are going well for all of you.
    love cindee.

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    Hi lovely girls,

    Must try again girls as I probably wont be able to get on the computer 2moro and I get too behind on posts if I don't keep up...

    Teagz, Just wanted to say I hope you got a good swimmer there and that you'll tell us of your BFP soon !

    Paula, I also think you O'd last nite, try to do another deed 2nite xx hope your exam went OK 2day

    Lan, Beata is my real name, its Polish...sometimes i sign my name Bea as then people can pronounce it he he. I love that you've painted the pictures of Hamish, thats so beautiful...xx

    Diana, good luck for your doc appointment tomorrow hun, hope they can get some answers for you. Ask them about the CM at CD21, that seems really late hun.

    Tildy, hope all is well with bub. How are your sinuses lately ?

    Jo, hooray to 25 weeks ! That is just awesome. Hope all goes OK in your next scan, and your cervix gets longer and longer.Thanx for the encouragement for my operation, I know it will be fine, just not looking forward to the recovery

    Jo76, Good luck with the psychic, I hope she tells you lots of good things, I love going to mine.

    Helen, I think you're nesting hun, just take it easy and no sniffing paint fumes !! Is bub kicking away ?

    Theresa, I think AF might stay away ! Good signs so far hun. Fingers and toes all crossed !!!

    Katie, I hope Ana is a little darling and is sleeping well.

    Megan, good luck in your 2WW, I hope it's a BFP for you !

    Dee81, sending you lots of hugs and I hope you stay with us for a while, we love you here !

    Cindee, great to hear the scan went smoothly ( apart from the bub jumping away ! ).

    Will catch up properly soon girls, off to bed to get rid of my headache and prepare myself for a second day back to work. Yuck !!!

    Hello to all the other gorgeous girls.

    Love & big hugs

    Beata xxxx



    xx

  11. #11
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    Sep 2008
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    Hiya Lan, before Sebastian I had 33 day cycles and O around day 19, so fairly late anyway but CM came in abundance and would begin about 3-4 days beforehand so I was very confident. The bleed after DTD on Sunday was like an AF bleed, then turned into spotting by the end of the night, then Monday and today nothing. The little CM I noticed last night has now gone too. I am really messed up, hence my decision to try IVF.

    The paintings brought tears to my eyes Lan. What an absolutely beautiful thing to do for Hamish. He is a very lucky boy to have you as a mum. Are you dabbling or have you studied art?

    Megan, I pictured myself at the RTA saying that and laughed like mad. Fingers crossed for the 2WW. Any symptoms? The first month trying for me was really hard, the anxiety and desperation for a BFP almost sent me insane. I'll give the BFP car a rub (or may just lie on the bonnet for a while) for you and the other TTC-ers.

    Dee, good to hear you had a great day at work and your co-workers were very supportive.

    Cindee WOO HOO for a great scan. You must be over the moon.

    Sue, where have you been? Hope all is ok with you and bubs.

    Theresa, one more day until testing! Any symptoms?

    Hi Beata, hope your headache has gone. Only a few more days until you get that nasty fibroid removed!

    Paula, get one last shot in last night?

    Good morning to all my lovely friends I missed. Will check in again later after my FS appointment.
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  12. #12
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    Aug 2008
    Canungra, Gold Coast
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    Hi girls

    Just a quick update as I am not feeling too well. My throat is killing me and my head is pounding so the computer is not my friend tonight.

    Still no AF!!!! Tomorrow is 7 days late. I have been getting cramps again today but absolutely no sign of AF.

    I am so scared to get my hopes up but it is hard not to.

    Diana - good for you. I am sending you all the positive vibes I can muster.

    Teagz - So sorry AF arrived - stupid witch!

    Beata - Thanks for your positive vines - you are always so supportive.

    Dee - I am so glad your first day at work was great! Good luck with the TTC journey xx

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    Theresa, OMG that is such encouraging news !! I am so praying you're up the duff hun, when will you test ?????????????? Ooh, how exciting !! Bring on the BFP !!!!!!!!!!!!! Bring on the BFP !!!!!!!!
    PS Sorry you're under the weather, hope you're feeling better soon hun..

    Love and huge hugs
    Beata xxxxxxx

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    Jul 2008
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    That sounds so promising Theresa, I have got everything crossed for you!! Hope your feeling better soon, a big BFP will soon cheer you up! When are you going to test. We are all going to go crazy soon!!