Teagz hun, so glad to be back!!! Hate being away from my computer and you girls, I miss you too much!! I'm praying something magical is happening in there for you, you need the BPF so bad hun!!!! Seriously, what a great 21st present, hey????
Praying with all my might all the time, for all of our loveley girls TTC, we need some BFPs in here!!!!! Pleeeeeeese!!!!!!!!!!

Noni, I think it's important to first talk with the doc and perhaps try and find out why you went into pre term labour. I started having contractions just after my 20 week scan, and it turned out that my fibroid was being starved of oxygen and started irritating the uterus. At least I knew why I lost my son. My FS/OB never thought this would happen, as if he did, he would have removed the offending lump before I got pregnant. I am sticking with my current FS/OB, not sure if I need a high risk doc. Because the fibroid is now gone, there is no reason why I can't carry again.
I'd suggest to really talk all your concerns through with your doctor, and if he/she can't give you any decent answers, please get a second opinion. Do you think you might have a weak cervix perhaps? Have you discussed it with your doc? This might very well not be the reason, but it's worth looking into. Perhaps the progesterone is the answer.... I think you need to ask a lot of questions and hopefully get some answers.
I would also suggest to read a book on miscarriage as I read a few and I found a lot of interesting information there. I ended up asking heaps of questions when I visited my doc after Joshua was born, and he was surprised on my level of knowledge! I think being well informed is the basis to start asking the right questions, and hopefully getting to the source of the problem!

B xxxxxxxx