hi B, thanks for your answer. you gave me somethings to think about. i guess i'm nervous beacuse i have to do doctor huning again etc etc. no they said my cervix was fine, i had no fibroids, i had no contractions until that night we lost him. just bizzare. i have dealt with it though and was just feeling nervous. it's just irritating not knowing why...thanks anyway, you sound like you'll be fine so that's excellent