Jo what a beautiful thing to do, I am shedding many tears for you right now and holding you tight in my thoughts. Happy birthday Jack, I know you are somewhere safe, warm and happy, free from any troubles.
Laney I will be thinking of you to in the days to come, it is always so hard to know what to do at these times, keep busy or fall in a heap?? Let the day take you on it's own journey, thankfully you will have people who care deeply for you to support you.
for you both and for us all.