Helen, oh thank God all is ok, gave me such a fright until I got to the end of your message. Enjoy your couch day with Corey and I hope he gets well soon.
Beata, best of luck for tomorrow! I know you are extremely nervous but I am actually very excited for you as this means "goodbye fibroid, hello baby"! I wish with all my heart the procedure goes fabulously and recovery time is super quick. I hope you get a chance to log on and tell us how you are doing. I will be waiting anxiously for some news. BIG BIG hugs and my thoughts and deepest prayers are with you.
I got my CD22 blood test result today and it showed I have NOT even ovulated yet. MENTAL MENTAL MENTAL cycle. Another jab on Tuesday to retest. More headaches....
Hello to all my lovely BB friends.
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Helen, oh thank God all is ok, gave me such a fright until I got to the end of your message. Enjoy your couch day with Corey and I hope he gets well soon.
Beata, best of luck for tomorrow! I know you are extremely nervous but I am actually very excited for you as this means "goodbye fibroid, hello baby"! I wish with all my heart the procedure goes fabulously and recovery time is super quick. I hope you get a chance to log on and tell us how you are doing. I will be waiting anxiously for some news. BIG BIG hugs and my thoughts and deepest prayers are with you.
I got my CD22 blood test result today and it showed I have NOT even ovulated yet. MENTAL MENTAL MENTAL cycle. Another jab on Tuesday to retest. More headaches....
hello girls well i'm not going to try and catch up on everything that has happened in the last couple of days. good luck beata for 2morrow. been buggered a bit first week of work nearly over will catch up more on the weekend with you all.big hugs
Oh Helen, thank God all is OK !! you gave me a bit of a fright. Hope the stitches stay where they should for the rest of the pregnancy ! You have the nerves of steel, I would have been camped out at that hospital, busy or not !! LOL
Diana, you are awesome, you aways make me smile and make me feel like all will be OK. Thanks hun, I really appreciate it.
What's with the O ? Naughty O, it needs a kick up the bum. I am positive all will be OK soon, and you can get down to the real business. Keep positive too hun, I know they'll get to the bottom of it very soon
Thanks Dee, you are such a darling to wish me well when you you're yourself are feeling so buggered ! I know coming back to work for you would have been pretty depressing and draining, so big hug to you hun. It wasn't easy for me either, but after I survived the first couple of days, I was OK.
AFM, I just couldn't get on BB all this morning, the website was down I think...just my luck as I was home ready to type my fingers out to distract myself ! Now off to my osteo appointment, then going shopping to get my nighty and big nickers ( so they don't sit on my stiches, I don't know where I read this, been googling myself silly today ).
Big hello and hugs to every one else, will catch up soon.
good luck with the op Beata, I'm sure all will go well and you'll be ttcing with the rest of us in no time!!
Helen: THANK GOD, I can just imagine your heart racing as you were headed to the shops etc and then waiting to go to hospital for check up. At least you could go and get reassured. I remember when Tildy had a scare early on and got such grief about not being able to get checked out until an official appointment or something. As you said, much better to get checked out and it be nothing than do nothing and it be something.
Teagz: I must admit I still struggle with people who go and have normal pregnancies and have no concept of losing babies to miscarriage or stillbirth. Even though that was me a few years ago after I had a pretty uneventful pregnancy with my son which was my first. I was only saying to DH last night, sometimes having this group who are so in tune with how it feels it seems like everyone should be so aware but unfortunately they are not. Or maybe it is actually fortunate because it means that less women have to go through what we do. As long as your DF's sisters love their kids and appreciate them being happy and healthy then try and use them to visualise how your next pregnancy will go. Safe and sound with no hiccups in sight!!
Diana: I can't believe you haven't O'd. What is going on. Tell them we all demand answers and they better get them quick or they will have a group of angry women hunting them down and ripping them into gear!
Dee: great to hear from you. HOpe you are feeling well and rested up soon.
Sorry girls - I could not get onto the site last night. I tried for 5 hours!!!
Beata - Good luck for your op. I just know everything is going to go well and you will be fantastic and get your BFP sooner than you think I will be praying for a speedy recovery. I am still on a high - I am so relieved too and I feel so much "lighter" - if that makes sense?!?!?
Teagz - No I am not feeling sick yet (although I don't even mind if I do) I will take on anything this pregnancy throws my way. I must say that even with all the excitement in our lives I still grieve for Zachary. I am so sorry you are feeling so hurt, I wish I could take away the pain
Helen - I am so relieved everything is ok! I hope you are all feeling better.
Diana - Some hope for you..... After I had Zachary I had irregular cycles. The first was 28 days the 2nd was 30 days then 29 days and then 32 days - And now I am pg so I am for you
MrsRobbo - Thanks - you always make me laugh - good for you with the seat thing!! I thought I would change my ticker as what better way to show the universe how positive I am about this baby!
AFM - I had confirmation from my doctor today that the blood test was positive too! I will be calling the OB tomorrow to make an appointment and also my diabetic specialist. Time to get the ball rolling and make sure that everything goes right this time!
Good luck for your scan tomorrow Jo. I am sure it will go well (in spite of you being a naughty one and bringing in the washing!!). If I was going to break my bed rest I can tell you it wouldn't be to bring in the washing... maybe to eat a packet of tim tams out of the cupboard (if I was breaking bed rest, I might as well break my health kick as well right!!)
Theresa: yay for the blood tests. Now you're official!! You sound so confident about this pregnancy. If that counts for anything the next 40weeks (well actually 35 weeks + 1 day but whose counting... MEEEEEE) will be completely uneventful and soon we will all be gooing and gaaaing over your baby pics.
Just wanted to wish Beata GOOD LUCK for tomorrow! I'm sure it will go fine and hope you find those granny undies at the shops
And Helen, what a scare for you! I have never felt my stitch at all but I have heard it isn't unusual - good to hear they checked you out and all looks okay. And oh boy I know all about that panic about constipation pain vs something more sinister!! Drives me nuts.
Diana - bummer that ov still hasn't happened. Very annoying. But at least you have those IVF plans in place now so that is a step forward, no matter what happens with this cycle.
Teagz - sorry to hear you are feeling so down. Remember though babes that you only lost your angel such a short time ago; it is perfectly normal for you to still be struggling through the fog of grief and you will find that you and DH might be in different places as you go and it isn't a bad thing. My brother rang me today and we were chatting about his and his girlfriends preg (they are due the same day as us with their first) and when I hung up I found myself feeling really resentful towards my SIL for a little bit. Just because she can live normally, and seemingly without a worry at all, while I have to lie here restricted to the lounge/bed in a bid to get this preg to the end. It really isn't fair. But I love her and my brother and of course would not wish this on them - just a moment of feeling sorry for myself I guess.
I have my next scan tomorrow morning, so hopefully it will show all is stable and I can continue at home. I was a bit naughty today and brought in the washing but I was only out the back for a short time and the basket was light so I can't imagine it would have done any harm. Hopefully anyway!
Big hi to everyone I missed, and I know there are a few of you, sorry xx
Theresa, I am sure it was nice to get that confirmation, I am so excited for you! By the way, love your ticker, the stork is so cute, looking forward to see it flying along.
Beata, good luck with your op hun, it will be over before you know it and you'll be in here joining me and the other ttcers.
Lan, thinking of you If your just reading for now, please take care and do what you need to do. We're here for you.
Teagz, it is so hard when AF comes, especially the first one, it just sucks and feels so unfair not to be preggers. You'll always miss your little boy, but it is great that you can ttc in just a few weeks for another beautiful bub.
Helen, glad you went to the hospital, even if you felt like it wasn't neccessary in the end, you can NEVER be too sure. Glad that everything is alright now.
Jo, all the best for the scan, will be exciting for you to see your little one!
Diana, annoying that you haven't O'ed yet, but it also means that there is a little egg to catch! Keep getting some bedroom action every 2nd day you never know you may get a BFP before trying IVF
Paula, you made me laugh about the preggers seat
Good to hear from Rozzie, Dee and Katie. Hi to everyone else.
Girls, thanks so much for all your good wishes, I am so comforted to know I have such lovely, caring friends ! I don't know if I would be so strong without you pining for me, you really are a great bunch of girls. I'm not so anxious anymore, thanx to you all ! xxx
I'm sorry for the lack of personals tonite, but I just wanted to give you Teagz a big bear hug sweetie. Life really sucks sometimes, hey ? Sometimes men appear to 'be ready' so soon to try again, as they haven't been thru the physical pain of losing a baby. We, women, not only bear the physical scars, but also the emotional ones which is just so much to bear. I hope your hubby can understand and respect your feelings and give you the space you need to grieve properly, before you try again. I know it's hard to look at other women and think it's so easy for them to fall pregnant, but we, in the end, are the stronger ones moulded by our tragic experiences, and we will appreciate our little babies even more, when they come to us. Take care hun, I hope the sorrow in your heart will slowly lift away soon.
Jo, good luck for tomorrow's scan darl, I hope all is well with the nice long and tight cervix, and of course the real star of the show, your bub ! I'll be thinking of you tomorrow xx
Will catch up with you lovely ladies soon, again, thanks so much for your encouragement.
OMG! This is how hopelessly addicted I am to this site. Ive been trying ALL DAY and it's been saying the sites down... When it actually ended up working I literally cried out with relief I bet you boots now that I write my speel the site will crash again. Ugh! But anyway...
I hate AF. She's a constant reminder of a horrible thing and I feel completely alone and helpless through it at the moment because DF is up to that "accepting and moving on" stage of grieving and being all excited about being able to try again shortly, and I'm not, I'm still bawling like I child who's had their security blanket taken away, sobbing for wanting my baby back and how unfair it is that he was taken away in the first place.
The last couple of days I've become completely fascinated with DF sisters, one has three children (she is 23), the other has one (she is 19). It blows my mind that they can just have babies. They just have them. Their pregnancy's are uneventful, they are calm pregnant woman, and at the end they produce gorgeous, perfect little babies that they get to take home and dote over. Their bodies do exactly what they're meant to do, they breast feed perfectly, everything. It fascinates the absolute bajeezez out of me that they can do it first shot, and I couldn't. I feel like a horrible Mum already. I can't even put into words how much of a wow factor it's having on me at the moment.. My head is almost about to pop over it^^;
Persies!
Theresa! Why haven't we had anymore gushing from you? Are you feeling sick yet? You're going to be on a high for aaages, I don't think you'll believe it til you start showing. Ooh you'll have to show us belly photos! I can't wait! XD
dd, sorry you're having a bit of a hard time with your mental cycle still. You're in a fairly monitored sort of environment now so just stay confident that they know what they're doing and they'll sort everything out for you and you'll be screaming a BFP soon!
hgirs, better to be safe than sorry! I think I would have done exactly the same thing, except when they said not to hurry because they were busy I would have told them where to stick it, and that I was coming in NOW. Hope you had fun with the Wiggles and Bob How cute.
beata, Sounds like that bug thing is going around australia atm. DF came home yesterday from work with it and has been told strictly no sharing!!
Aah, well I feel calmer now. Thank goodness it's Thursday, bring on the weekend!
xx
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