Diana, big hugs to you, if it helps at all your not crazy! When I first started TTC after coming off the pill my cycles where wacko, we fell pregnant fairly much straight away but sadly lost that little one, it was then that I discovered how whacko they were. I had two periods post D&C of approx 45 - 55 days! Was giving it one more cycle to see what happened ( This is also why I started charting) before going onto clomid and WHAM I fell pregnant but guess what day I o'd on??? DAY 60!!!!!!!!!!! We were extremely lucky to have caught that little egg, as you can imagine DH and I were both a bit over TTC by that stage!
Good luck, when are you going to the coast? Maybe it's still meant to be?