thread: TTC after Late Loss, Recurrent Miscarriage or Stillbirth #2 2010

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  1. #1
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    Dec 2007
    Sydney
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    Oh Dory, any "normal" pregnant woman would feel that way this close the the big day, weepy, excited, nervous, scared, tired, to name but a few emotions that aren't helped by the last massive surges of pregnancy hormones. But for us women, we have the added burden of grief and panic. All I can say is try to think positive.

    Visualise your bub entering the world, into your arms, that first time you gaze into their eyes, smell their skin, hear their meowing cries. Whilst doing this, take slow deep breaths, in two three... out two three.... I'm sure you'll be amazing and I wish you all the best in the next few days. Big hugs

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    Aug 2009
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    Powelly - you're right and that visual image and those thoughts are just so beautiful...thankyou... and the good thing is, I already know those feelings, and the love I had for my babies at their birth... imagine how amazing it will be this time around? As you can see I am in a much better place... thank goodness - I didn't much like that other one. But it is good to know it's "normal", whatever that is.

  3. #3
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    Jul 2010
    Rural NSW near ACT
    413

    Dory- I have been thinking about you a lot on and off today. Hope all is good.
    Suzie- I hope the post surgery results are good.......
    Powelly- good luck hope your TWW meets a BFP.........Love your words to Dory, I will try and pos visualize too.....
    Chez- good spotting with your mum....I hope she's OK. I hope your aligning with your donor works....how exciting!
    AFM no AF as yet....NOT testing as I am enjoying not being sad because I'm not pregnant. IVF starts this week but only when and "if" AF arrives.....arrrrgh......

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    Aug 2009
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    Kateo - FX crossed for IVF - even though that means waiting for AF....

  5. #5
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    Jul 2010
    Rural NSW near ACT
    413

    Dory thanks but I have FX'ed for no AF and no IVF.........you never know.........

  6. #6
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    Aug 2009
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    Ah ha - that is a very cunning plan and I like it

  7. #7
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    Jul 2010
    Rural NSW near ACT
    413

    Just call me Baldrick