Thanks all for your lovely messages and good wishes. I'm still not celebrating just yet, might wait til I have this bub in my arms before I start getting excited :-)

Kate - pressure is awful. I have time on my side yet felt the intense pressure to give my son a sibling before he was too "old". I know that sounds silly but the pressure is real. I couldn't imagine how hard it must be for you having to push ahead when emotionally you aren't ready. Be gentle to yourself.

Gi, I'm sorry you are having a tough month. We all have em but it doesn't make it any easier does it.

Chez - Good luck and fingers x'd for you!

To everyone I have missed, hugs and thinking of you.

:-)