Chez, I hope this is a good month for you hun.
Thanks for your message the other day. We are all at different stages but it is nice to be here, thank you for your heart felt welcome. I rarely o'd prior to cd13 although in saying that this month it was more like cd12. I'll be! I don't think this month is a good one for me...hope you can pick up the slack and bring in a BFP! xx

cmeglles, Hi sweety and so sorry to hear of your heartbreak in losing a baby. We lost our daughter at about 24weeks and she was born 28weeks and 5 days. She had Turners Syndrome and we waited to give birth to her so by the time she was born, it was a bit too late for certain tests. Thankfully it was visibly obvious of her condition and ob could confirm that it was more likely a fluke than a genetic occurance. We opted not to have an autopsy. The placenta etc were getting too old to grow culture for other tests. So to not answer your question in a round a bout way...I can't help you there either. We could have had an amnio while we waited for her birth but that risked infection while i was carrying her and I really didn't want to be induced.
Again hun I am so sorry for what you have been through, it is devastating. My only advice is give yourself the time you need and talk about it as much or as little as you like...repetition is not a problem here.
Love and wishes for you.

Aries, hope you are feeling ok hun.