My heart goes out to all you ladies who have endured losses. I hope it's some consolation that your bubs are playing together in heaven without a worry in the world.

I was with my friend the other day talking about how scared I was of ever miscarrying and she said her grandma once told her that back in Lebanon (which is where they're from) women would have around 20 births of which 10 would survive. Their attitude was they'd try for a baby, if it lived it lived if not they'd just have another one.
I can't believe how normal it was for them, I guess because they didn't have the medical advancements that we're so fortunate to have here now. Once my grandma was telling me of how out of around 10-13 kids that she gave birth to just 7 survived, the others all died a few months or a year or two after birth. One of them she still mourns for - she was home all alone and her baby was sick and nobody was there to take it to the hospital. Her husband would work in another city and be gone for weeks or months at a time and she was living alone in some rural area far away from any family. No telephone line either.