Hey everybody, just wanted to write and send cyber hugs to everybody hurting at this time of year.

Doesn't it feel like we're in a bind? On the one hand we really do want to welcome the new little members of our extended families, but on the other hand it's hard not to think "why not MY little one?" I always feel very petty when I start thinking like this, but sometimes I can't help it. I just keep my mouth shut.

Anthonysmom: congrats on AF!